Is it normal to breakup

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i have one gf and due to circumstances our marriage or further relation is not possible so how should i breakup with her i dont want to hurt her

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Based on 35 votes (25 yes)
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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    9 years ago | pl

    Face to face.

    Not by phone and definitely not by text like my ex ( bitch)

    As for what to say I don't know her or the situation

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    What are these so called "circumstances"?

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    • rockstar44
      9 years ago

      our religion our life styles our families are totally diffrent and she is very far away from me i mean my city + there is 6 years age difference + she is studying and im having good enough age for marriage

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        Whoa...well, that does sound quite daunting. I'm sorry to hear it.

        I for one would never change my religion for anyone.

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        • rockstar44
          9 years ago

          yup me too but she doesnt understand this all i tried so much to convince her not to love me

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  • WishIWasHere
    9 years ago

    Like a band aid quick and ouch that fucker hurt.....

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    9 years ago

    Face to face but by the way you put it seems you fell some kind of guilt.
    What have you done to her? Promisses you can't fulfill?

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    • rockstar44
      9 years ago

      i cheated on her by mistake i didnt plan it but somehow i cheated her i never want to did that n yes im feeling very much guilty and depressed

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      • Mr-Myrtos
        9 years ago

        Better think twice before doing what so ever.
        If you really like her and want to finish with the relation don't hurt her. Don't tell her you cheated on her and just tell her that after thinking a lot you reached the conclusion you are not prepared to have any king of relationship and marriage is not a priority in your life for now.
        Try to be a good friend of her and help to get trough it.
        Nobody cheats by mistake. We cheat because we are human and that's it.
        I just don't understand why you feel so depressed. If you think you'll feel better and relieved telling her is wrong coz you are thinking about you and your feelings and not about her.
        Don't tell her. Most probably she is a nice girl and doesn't deserve it. Think before about her now.
        Again. Now first her feelings than you. And don't be depressed.
        (Sorry about my English.Is not my first language)

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        • rockstar44
          9 years ago

          thanks a lot for views and advices its very helpful to me thanks alot again and give me one more help how can i get her out from this i dont want to think about me bringing her out safely from this is my first priority

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    Yes it's normal to breakup.

    Relationships end all the time, as I'm sure you know.

    Odd question...

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    "I don't want to hurt her"

    Break ups always hurt. Just tell her that you want to break up and why.

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