Is it normal to block a person you click with, without explanation?

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I was talking to a guy on a dating site for a couple of weeks. We had four really long chats online, we got along well and seemed to click. I sensed that he was going to ask me to meet up, and although we did get along, I realised he wasn't what I was looking for.... I panicked and blocked him!

Was what I did normal, or extremely immature? Did i owe him an explanation?

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  • Eric118
    8 years ago

    Yes, especially if he is a stalker, you should block him as soon as possible and stalkers don't deserve explanations for why they get blocked.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago

    He wasn't a stalker tho. I just couldn't see myself with him that's all

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    • Another_Account
      8 years ago

      I'll give you the rational advice you desperately need. It wont be pretty, but that's life.

      Yes, you are immature. What normal person would feel a connection, such as you described, and than irrationally panic and block that same person?? Tell me how that makes sense?

      As for giving him an explanation, you already showed what type of person you are, I doubt he really cares all that much since he didn't invest much of anything anyway. If the dating website is a serious one I would stop using it, you're basically just trolling it anyway and wasting the time of people who may actually be trying to use it seriously.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        8 years ago

        Thank you for the constructive feedback. I appreciate it.

        I hope you don't mind me asking you a question. Should I stop talking to a guy as soon as a deal breaker comes up, or is it ok to continue talking to the person to see if other positives about the person will make me change my mind about the deal breaker?

        By deal breaker, I don't mean anything unsafe, violent or stalker like.

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        • Soapy_Testicles
          8 years ago

          I'm the same person as above. I have to create multiple accounts to get around this karma nonsense. Also disregard this account name as I create silly ones because I guess I'm still a little immature myself.

          Everyone has different criteria they determine as a "deal breaker". The most important thing when trying to find a fulfilling, satisfying relationship is to know yourself first and what you are looking for. I would examine what you consider to be "deal breakers" but also keep in mind that if you get too picky about it eventually all the prospects will dry up.

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            8 years ago

            Thank you again

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  • Stinkin_Nigger
    8 years ago

    You don't owe anyone shit not even an explanation that's going to far . who gives afuck

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