Is it normal to believe performing oral should be....

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I just find that nowadays, since a lot of people do it, they are most likely contract STDs. I think it should be done with the person you love and spend the rest of your life with just like making love. However, we live in such a modern society where sex is not a big deal. Anyways is it normal to think performing oral should be done for the special person instead of everyone else? It's my opinion no offense towards yours.

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  • Freedom_
    10 years ago

    I agree. When I was dating I was definitely more discriminate with my mouth than my vagina. That sounds whorrible.

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    • DominusNLMHammerus
      10 years ago

      niiiiiiiice

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    • VirgilManly
      10 years ago

      Oh hello.
      ;-)

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  • Couman
    10 years ago

    Is it really that hard to write a subject line that fits that space provided? Or if you really, really must cut it off, to finish your thought in the details?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Ya it takes up the whole space if I ended "with the person you love".

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      • Couman
        10 years ago

        So either Rephrase it, "IIN I think oral sex should only be with the person you love?". Or at least put the cut off words in the details so it reads "Is it normal to believe performing oral should be... ...with the person you love?" instead of "Is it normal to believe performing oral should be... I just find that nowadays, since a lot of people do it, they are most likely contract STDs."

        I know this is a minor gripe, but it's more helpful to other users and it's really not much work.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          Well I apologize for my title to be cut off. Some other people do it as well on this website. I thought it was alright I put it like that since it didn't fit, but next time I'll just abbreviate the is it normal part. Thanks for the tip.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    I thought oral was a choice to prevent pregnancy for you young folks. When you feel so obligated to go down on some creep rather than risk his leaving you because you won't "put out"?
    It all sounds pretty sick to me, but at least you're not kids havin kids.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I agree. I find it disgusting to do that to be honest. I guess I say that because I'm a young, naive virgin. To everyone else, who is young like me, it seems normal or OK to perform, but to me nope, not now. And here comes the people who are going to point a finger at me for thinking this way...........

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    Hmm. Wanting to have sex (or certain kinds of sex) with only people you are in love with is a common desire. It's not something I've felt since I was a kid, really. For me, keeping your sexuality completely exclusive to one person is an intensely romantic idea and when I was a few years younger I believed that was the right path for me.

    But now? I don't think it works in the real world for a lot of people, including me, and I think in many ways it would be a shame to place artificial limits on your sexual experience and die without exploring an essential part of human nature. I do think sex is very special, but it isn't made less special if you explore it with more people.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Yeah that is what it basically sums up to. Sex is not used emotionally rather than used physically in this world. Then there's people who judge you and risks you'll be taking but it's your life you choose what you find suitable. I agree the fact we need to try out things but this should be settled so someone can enjoy it longer because eventually we humans will get bored of everything.

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      • Riddler
        10 years ago

        Only have sex with your wife/husband. Yeah a lot of people believe in this rule. Especially Christians.

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  • Thatguy777
    10 years ago

    What if someone is orally bi? I guess they're shit out of luck.

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  • VirgilManly
    10 years ago

    I won't have a woman's fungina near my mouth if I don't love her.
    But I have no problem giving out more free facials to strangers than Merle Norman or Estee Lauder.

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  • DominusNLMHammerus
    10 years ago

    Are you jelly because you don't get it back. if so.... sup

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  • westoptic
    10 years ago

    Given blowjobs to people I was dating and people I wasn't. It hasn't fucked me up emotionally or anything like that. When you're young, you experiment. You can want to have sex with someone without loving them.

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  • Tyger
    10 years ago

    Please do not give in to either externally imposed pressure to have any kind of sexual relationships nor your own internal critic, who might say you should have sex (oral or otherwise) because everyone else is.

    Try your best to save it for the right person. The more sexual relationships you have, the more problems you are likely to have with emotional intimacy when you are older. Just look up "problems with emotional intimacy" on the internet and see the issues longer term couples are having because they had previous sexual relationships. It's staggering.

    I have not had many sexual relationships but really, most of what I had haven't been worth the barriers they create (on both sides because my partner had several relationships before me too) to emotional intimacy in a long-term relationship (nearly a decade for me). There is an eternal quality to any sexual encounter and an energetic melding which just doesn't depart as soon as the physical act is over with.

    Given my time again, I would not lose my virginity the way I did. To keep it for that special someone really is not a puritanical or even religious attitude; it is a way of preparing the ground for feeling secure and forging an endless deepening of intimacy with that special someone in the safe haven of the relationship. There is far more to losing virginity than just the physical act. It has psychological repercussions for the rest of your life and emotional intimacy is what makes it special, not the physical act. And it should be special because it is a rite of passage and as such, sacred.

    Also, STDs are very real and could cause fertility problems and other issues that all have ramifications for your whole health and wellbeing. If you ever want children, you do not want to have the stress (and expense) of dealing with fertility issues that often affect women who have contracted STD's. I've seen that happen to others (not me) and it breaks some psychologically.

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  • Legion
    10 years ago

    honestly, why does everyone think promiscuity and getting stds is a modern concept? ive read about women using silver in the 1800s to treat chlamydia and gonorrea! and before that, Benjamin Franklin! he was the real-life 1700s version of Quagmire, and had several STDs!

    the only differences are that is we have more technology to advertise our "taboo" activities, and the people that simply don't care who knows.

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  • Enizzle
    10 years ago

    I thought it was gonna end with "should be mandatory."

    And bitches....yes. Yes it should.

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