Is it normal to begin to have an urge to have sex with your best friend?

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I've recently begun to desire bisexual tendencies from being a straight male all of my life, however I'm only attracted to guys who have specific characteristics (i.e long hair, slender etc.).
I begun to fantasise more and more about the same-sex, but I haven't told anyone about it, yet.

Only within the last two months have I realised that my best friend who has been with me through thick and thin throughout my growth as a child, has all of the features I have been searching for in others, yet the idea of 'it' ever happening is absolutely grotesque. I don't have many friends yet he has stayed by my side for quite a while, I couldn't bear to lose my only friend. Maybe if I never knew him none of this would ever have happened?

Eventually I begun to have dreams about having sex with him which became more frequent over time. Is it that I'm just in denial about the whole thing?
It feels so wrong, yet it might feel so right.

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  • Ascelin
    6 years ago

    Studies have been conducted that prove about 94% of the male population is bisexual. Look at pretty much any ancient civilization for proof. The problem is that it isn't widely accepted in this society and it can really change things between you and your friend if he finds out how you feel. If it turns out for the worse, it will really hurt both of you. If he feels the same way though, he could be your soul mate, for lack of a better word. Speaking from personal experience with the exact same situation. Message me if you want any more incite into the situation.

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    • bfus
      6 years ago

      What studies are these?

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      • Ascelin
        6 years ago

        https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/kb4dvz/teens-these-days-are-queer-af-new-study-

        http://www.cbsnews.com/news/homophobia-may-reveal-denial-of-own-same-sex-attraction-study-suggests/

        https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_bisexuality (I realize that Wikipedia is far from a scholarly source but the references listed in the bottom are)

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  • Normalguy1968
    6 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with exploration of different sensualities as long as you can handle the fact that you may choose to change teams or not. Maybe play on both teams. Intimacy can be amazing regardless of gender.

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