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Is it normal to become completely obsessed with someone when at a time everyone else in your life treated you like trash?
Kindness can make me form a strong attraction to someone extremely quickly. I think it's normal, so long as you can eventually detach yourself if it's not helping you.
Sure, I've had that happen to me in the past, myself being the kind one. Sometimes though, someone was just being nice simply because they are nice to everyone and their intentions get misunderstood. Finding someone who is nice among 99% of others who treat you bad would make that person seem like they were heaven-sent and makes feelings develop easier but its not all bad, a nice person like that might be a good investment despite all that.
Don't worry, my message wasn't meant to be a "I'm right and you're wrong" type of message, that wasn't my intention. I only mentioned my personal case, not trying to diss your infatuation or anything, thats why I said that person might be a good investment. I too like it when people are nice to me and find that an attractive trait compared to uncaring people. I even like a simple "how are you" from others.