Is it normal to become depressed in good relationships?

whenever i enter a relationship, even if its a good, healthy one, my depression begins to worsen??

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  • dirtybirdy

    Maybe you long for your lost freedom.

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    • lolo3088

      so what should i do to stay in a relationship but let them know i want to freedom. also i feel like i need to keep my freedom but also should respect what the do/dont prefer me to do. like if he doesnt want me to party ill have a hard time deciding if its my decision or if i should respect his opinion on not wanting me to party. (thats just an example) please respond.

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      • dirtybirdy

        Talk to him first and if you can't come to some sort of agreement, I'd leave. I've gotten to a point in my life where I finally realized that relationships just aren't for me. I need to do what I want, when I want. No person is worth my freedom and independence.

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  • normal-1

    Sounds like your self esteem is low. So you worry about them leaving you. Whether you are aware of your anxiety or not.

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    • lolo3088

      no i really dont think theyll leave. i think its more of a freedom thing

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  • Disappointmentaf

    It happens. It has happened to me too because we feel so vulnerable.

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