Is it normal to be worried to have sex with my boyfriend?

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I'm a virgin. A month ago, my boyfriend told me that he wasn't a virgin and that he used his ex girlfriend for sex. He admitted it and he told me that he hoped he doesn't do use someone for sex again because he felt terrible about it looking back. Okay, so things have been getting a little sexual between us; he'd finger me and yesterday, I held his dick for the first time and I nervously gave him a handjob. Well the thing is, I'm afraid that we'll end up having sex later. I don't mind that at all, but what if he ends up using me for sex?; That he loses all of his feelings for me like what happened with his ex and that I'll just become a sex toy? That worries me. Is it normal to feel this way?

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  • ObsessedWithReedus
    10 years ago

    I'm nervous to have sex with my bf as well. But that is partly because I'm Lutheran, and it is considered a sin. But, not bringing religion into this, I totally understand your plight. Given his past, your fear of becoming another sex toy is completely valid and understandable.

    The only advice I can give you is TAKE IT SLOW. don't rush into sex until you feel completely ready.

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