Is it normal to be worried about long distance

is both of us going off to college and keeping a long distance relationship going to be a problem? im worried i will lose them

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  • ellnell

    It can work. Unfortunately I think it works out better if you were long distance to begin with because then you're used to it and maybe there's a reason for it, like both of you being content with that kind of relationship. There's the risk you grow apart or something else happens, it depends on your personalities but it also works for people so you never know. Depends on how serious you both are.

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  • hauntedbysandwiches

    If you both love each other and are willing to put in the effort needed (it takes more than just love), it can absolutely work.

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  • twinklestar

    Long distance works. I had been in one. Just understand, give time as much as you can, dont forget to make surprises from time to time, dont make her feel unwanted. She should do same.

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  • --

    I wouldn't hold my breath. There is a lot of temptation at college and with all those hormones

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  • Unknown_player

    Long distance can work if you have a strong bond with the person if you know the person well and if you trust them

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  • MrToxic

    Admittedly the odds aren't in your favour. That being said, you guys can potentially make it work. It's important you both have a good sense of trust, visit at least every couple of months (or as frequently as possible) and don't stress the small things like if they don't text you back for a day. Insecurity and distrust are the main killers of long distance relationships.

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  • McSorley

    He might be with you, in a matter of speaking, but face it: most men want sex. He's not going to settle for merely jerking the pickle just to appease you.

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    • im male, shes female

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      • McSorley

        My bad. Well, women want sex, too. All depends on how much you trust her. I've known a couple people in long distance relationships and they both cheated multiple times. Doesn't mean she will but, you know...

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  • RoseIsabella

    Depends.

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    • on what, in ur opinion?

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      • RoseIsabella

        On whether, or not one of you meets someone else. Also it depends on whether, or not the two of you drift apart.

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  • litelander8

    Generally, it ends. Good luck.

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  • my_life_my_way

    You will lose them and that’s a good thing. Long distance doesn’t work and one or both of you will end up cheating

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