Is it normal to be worried about a girls relationship histroy?

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Hi, Im 20 going on 21 and I was wondering is it normal A. that I am virgin and want to remain that way until marriage? And B. There is a girl I work with and I am pretty confident she is interested in me, we text pretty much all day everyday. I just find it a bit unnerving that she has been sexually active with at least 3 people that I know of. Being the virgin, I just almost feel like I shouldn't date her. Is it normal for me to not want to give her a chance or should I just go for it?

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    If she has really only been with three people at age 20 you should go for it! In today's standards, at least where I live, that's as close to a virgin as your going to get!

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  • hootiemomma
    11 years ago

    It's normal, but you can't judge her for it. Everyone has a past and if you can't accept the fact that she's been sexually active and you are going to judge her for it and make it an issue throughout your dating life, than just move on. Don't blame her because she has a different set of values than you do. If she is willing to become a "born again" virgin, which I know is possible in the Christian Community, than you have to accept that and go with it. If you are going to let it bug you, eat you up, and you are going to make her life miserable for her past...than don't waste either of your time.

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  • Ithil15
    11 years ago

    I'm actually going through a bit of a similar situation! I say go for it. If she really likes you, then she wouldn't mind you being a virgin. And it'd be better to lose your virginity to somebody who has experience, rather than somebody without it. Less awkward fumbling that way.

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