Is it normal to be worried?

I’m worried and nervous to ask a girl out, so freaked out about it that I haven’t ever asked anyone out. I guess I’m scared of rejection. I just don’t know what to say if I even were to ask. And on a side note, why does the guy have to ask? Why can’t the girl? What are your thoughts? And guys, when and how did you ask your first girlfriend out?

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  • ComeFlyWithMe

    Just go ahead and do it. It's ok if you sound a little nervous or say something stupid because if the girl really likes you she will say yes anyway.

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  • rosarra

    If u don't jump in and take a chance you will never get anywhere. Don't be afraid. You won't burst into flames if she says no. Just play it cool and go about your business. You might not think so right now but there are plenty of options out there and you'll find her. If she says no then she's not it.

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  • ElectricGhost

    I'm not a guy, but the guy just HAS to ask out the girl most of the time!!! unless of course, the girl beats you to it!!!

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  • proniss

    Oh I remember the first time I asked a chick out I was so nervous I was shaking and palms where sweating and all that but as soon as I got my words out I felt so relieved even just saying it.... She rejected me but after that asking out girls was a lot easier and I could do it a lot more casual. One tip I have for ya is DO IT IN PERSON if you don't your a loser :P

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