Is it normal to be worried?

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My girl has a history of cheating, as far as i know she hasn't cheated on me. But i am her longest relationship so far, twice the amount of time to cheat. Her best male friend from childhood confessed to her yesterday. she said she ignored the topic because she didn't know what to say. Well it didn't bother me much, and still doesn't. But then she told me a few months ago he asked her out, knowing she was dating me. And her ex confessed he was still in love with her. I don't see her all that much so she'd have plenty of time to do whatever she likes, and we talked about her wanting to take a break, she said not yet but she will want to, but she said she knows she'll want to get back together with me. I don't know what I'm supposed to be thinking but I'm worried, so tell me, if you were in my position would you feel the same? Is it normal to be worried over this?

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  • Bubbles3
    10 years ago

    Dude, Once a cheater always a cheater.
    You rally want a girl that has the reputation of being a cheater? I don't understand?
    Don't you want a girl that would rather die then break your heart?
    There are so many girls out there that have pure souls and intentions, that are not only being rejected but ignored. I just don't understand! There are so many girls that are worth your time and more. That have wanted and deserved a man for so long, but your mind is so clouded by, what sex?
    You are going to end up with your heart broken. And you know what? Those girls that have deserved a good man will be far gone, with one that doesn't have any worries like yours. I mean if she cant keep off her back and legs spread then what's the point? Find a girl that as a heart as pure as gold and then you can thank me!

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  • sunny_wantsome
    12 years ago

    Saying it again
    "Once a slut always a slut"

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  • calavary
    13 years ago

    A cheater stays a cheater ALWAYS! But yes I would be worried if that were happening to me. But u should just talk to her about it and see what comes out of her mouth

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  • theytookthisone
    13 years ago

    Her saying she wants to take a break...sounds a bit sketch. Yet she still says she wants to get back with you eventually. I think more so she wants to keep a hold on you but at the same time wants to have fun..(it's way too familiar to me, thats why I assume this)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    just don't let this one incident ruin your trust in her or your relationship. let her know how you feel

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yes it's normal to be worried. Honestly if she wants a break she shouldn't even be dating you right now. No women will want a break unless she plans to or already is cheating.

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  • CaramelChrissy
    13 years ago

    If she said she wants to take a break that means she wants to go out and have some fun so she doesn't cheat on you. Instead of a break I think you guys should break up completely. Because you need to trust your partner within the relationship. Find someone else who is trustful.

    A cheater is a cheater. Some may never change.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I would, it's really hard to trust someone who has cheated. So if you guys take a break, I'm sure she will go have some fun with her ex so she will claim that "she never cheated on you" cause you guys were on a break.

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