Is it normal to be with your second cosuin and be friend with benfits

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im currently seeing my second cousin hes 21 and im 15. every time I see him we have sex and one time he told me "we are kinda basically dating because we not actually cousins you are my second cousin." but I had just ignored him and pretend I didn't even hear a word. one time he asked me for pics but just on my bra and underwear, I sent them because ... well I really don't know why I did but i did but regretted it after. I saw him on new years and he had told me "nice picutres." I felt happy that he thought i had a beautiful body but werid it out is this normal that we have this type of sexual bond ? should i stop this ? and tell him that "we" cant counting what we are doing ?

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Based on 90 votes (46 yes)
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  • the_void
    8 years ago

    He's probably taking advantage of you for his sexual desires. It doesn't sound like he actually cares about you or anything like that. Do you really want a relationship like that? Not to mention you're 15 and he could get in serious trouble if you were caught. But if you don't mind it, then do whatever. Your life.

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    • Couman
      8 years ago

      I don't really see it like that. The point about the legal aspect is valid, of course. But if she see's it as FwB while he's talking about "basically dating" than if anything she has a more realistic assessment of the situation than he does.

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  • Pebbles0101
    8 years ago

    I think it's normal. I've done that with 3 of my cousin's ( 2 second cousins and 1 fourth cousin) started when I was 14, they're ages was 17, 19 and 22. We kept it going for years. And yes they all three knew.

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork
    8 years ago

    Every girl needs a person they trust and feel comfortable with to learn about sex, and learn to be good at it. It sounds like your cousin is that person for you.

    Since you're having sex with him, be very careful not to get pregnant. Be a friend to your cousin when around family and friends, and be intimate when you're alone with him. You and your cousin can share a bond that could be a short fling; or as the years go by, you may fall in love with each other, marry, have a family of your own; and live happily ever after. There are many things you can share with each other as family/friends; and experiences together as lovers. Again, just don't get pregnant when you're young; you have lots of time for kids later in life. In this kinky girl's opinion, you should go for it!

    Be safe and have fun.

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    • officialgenaveve
      8 years ago

      That excalty what he does when we have sex he teaches me and tells me "I could use that later in the furtue with my boyfriend or husband ." and the way ur describing it , is excalty the way we are and what we do . omg ur post / comment made my day !

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  • Bragga
    8 years ago

    I say yes you should stop because you never know what problems can arise from this. No I lied you do know what problems can arise; what if your family finds out what if they take him to court etc. It's... I mean I'm not shaming you guys from having done this, Im just saying quit while you're ahead

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  • MrsRainbow
    8 years ago

    I would be more worried that he is 21 and you are 15 than anything. Not to mention that you are under age and this could have serious legal consequences for him if you are found out. From the way you describe it, I would be wary of being taken advantage of if I were you.

    Also, pictures have the ability to come back and bite you in the ass, he now has those photos and can do anything with them. They could be online somewhere, he might show his friends etc.

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  • deerhunter123
    8 years ago

    no you should not stop having sex with him. your getting sex why stop

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  • RandyRascal
    7 years ago

    Yes. Use hm for your own sexual pleasure. Don't get pregnant.

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  • 12eahtsdrateri
    8 years ago

    the only reason why i voted no was because of the age and the blood relation.
    but each to their own

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  • 3yankees
    8 years ago

    Anything goes , south of the Mason Dixon Line.
    Everybody is doing their cousins in that neck of the woods.

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  • MR.SexyJesus
    8 years ago

    In certain parts of Alabama yes.

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    • officialgenaveve
      8 years ago

      that it is normal or legal . or is it not legal and not normal ?

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      • MR.SexyJesus
        8 years ago

        it is perfectly normal if you go to Alabama yes

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  • MR.mr
    8 years ago

    I'm not as concerned by the fact the your second cousins as much as the fact that your only 15 and he's 21

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  • Grotgirl
    8 years ago

    You should focus on your studies, because quite frankly the only thing I got from your ghastly use of the English language is that you're shagging your cousin. Also, stop shagging your cousin.

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  • deepdankstickygoo
    8 years ago

    Well if anyone else finds out about yalls little relationship your second cousin could be charged with statutory rape. He will then be having sexual relationships with the all the bloods and the crips at the same time while in prison.

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