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Is it normal to be with my bf that's 39 y.o and I'm 20
And to love him so so much and to think that's there's noone better than him
But we have been together for 2.5 years and our family's dont know yet, just scared to tell them because they wont agree. But then i think if they dont agree i will be with him anyway. Is that normal ?
When you're 40, he'll be 60. His libido will be gone before yours. I wouldn't be surprised if you ended up cheating on him because of that. And don't say you won't, because that would be false. And, unless you're highly spiritual, your sexual gratification, whether you realize it or not, is a very powerful thing and will make you do strange things. It's always best to date someone as close in age as possible so you can grow old together. At this rate, you'll end up having to marry a second husband.
a lot of people say age is just a number, but when you're still this young and he's much older and more experienced with relationships than you, it's always a possibility that he's using you for sex or showing you off to his friends etc.
Its possible that he really does love you and what not, because not everyone is a bastard, but I would really step back and take a look at the relationship.
I'm assuming that.... 2 1/2 years ago, some 37 year old 'sickO' was screwing a 17/18 year old child. What else would he want from her?
He made her feel good in more ways than one, and now she thinks she's in love with him.
Try this - stop having sex with him and see how long he sticks around.
I can't see what a man of that age would have in common with you. Dr Phil would say he is inadequate and has issues coz he can't be with someone his own age. Seems very strange to me. I just hope you have went out with dozens of other guys and he isn't monopolizing your youth.
Good luck.