Is it normal to be very pee shy?

I'm the same way. However, I go anyways.
I just plug my ears. Remember, it's not abnormal to have to pee. Everyone does it.

Think about something that makes you relaxed and close your eyes when your trying to pee , soon you will get over it .

Its called 'Shy bladder'. Research it

I used to be the same when I was younger, and so was my brother. I think it stems from insecurity or lack of confidence, as I no longer find it a problem. As far as I recall, there isnt really any solution. My advice would be, go into the bathroom, if theres people in the stalls, put some makeup on or something til they leave. Or try pulling tissue paper out into a stack in the bowl so that when you wee it doesnt make a sound. Randomjellys hand dryer advice sounds good.

I have this to, but I'm going to overcomer it. You can too and I'd like to help (if your not gay).

I can only pee with someone in the room if it's Amy my gf

Oh Yea.! That is very normal. The coast has to be clear In the restroom for me to even sit on the toilet.

Sit down and pee, actually works because you can see what is now behind you and your more comfy sitting down then standing up. People who say it's not manly are douchebags.

You are definitely not alone in this. I can't even take long trips because of this psychological problem, and I tend to be flaky. I understand it is completely normal to have to pee, but I just can't get it going when my body is that tense. The funny thing is that I can honestly care less if people see me urinating. The problem is just getting it going. Jail has been my biggest fear for this reason. And also, I tend to hold back from having a long term girlfriend. I've been able to go a few times in public restrooms, but only when I am really, really angry, almost to the point of nihilism. I honestly do not know how to remedy such a problem, but I've yet given up in seeking one. It's nice to know that someone else has a similar problem, even though it may not be as severe as mine. It's all about thought process.

As a guy peeing in bathrooms wiht urinals that don't have walls weird me out. Even if I really have to pee I just can't go. Bladder shy

I'm the same way it sucks I try to distract my brain and use my phone while I'm peeing that helps!

I used to be the same way when I was younger. It sucks lol. Try running water or if you're in a public restroom try hitting the hand dryer (if they have one)..and then race to pee. Another thing you could try is to plug your ears...crazy I know but sometimes any little noise can make it impossible to go.

girls are crazy

When I was 21 I dated a 17yo, I felt like I was wrong. When I was 40 I dated a 18yo and loved her and felt fine. It's society that makes u feel bad. It's fine. I'd date a 16yo if I liked her I'm 43 now.