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Idk why but I checked my gf's phone and she texts at least 4 guys on a daily basis, and 2 of these guys had a relationship with her before me. Should I confront her?
What is the content of the texts like?
If it's flirtatious then it's reasonable to be concerned. You clearly don't trust her, and if she trusts you she won't if she finds out you checked her phone.
Also in the title you wrote 7 guys, in the story you wrote 4 :S
There's a difference between guy friends that you know about and have met and ex bf's. Personally I think its disrespectful and I would hate it. I wouldn't normally go through my gf's phone unless she gave me reason to and if I felt the need to and found that, then I would have to ask her what the hell was going on. If they were just 'friends' then she would have told me about them yes? If she's kept them a secret, then its something I should be worried about.
Just hell no. I don't think it's normal that you haven't dumped her yet...I couldn't bare to see my girlfriend text her ex on daily basis, it would turn my guts upside down.
Perhaps you should confront yourself first.
Was it ETHICAL to check your girlfriend's phone?
You just said at least 4..the title says 7....
Either way, confront her about it.
Your girlfriend has her own life. Texting and fucking are on completely different planes.
Lightningtech's comment said it all. Stomach upside-down feeling. Ahhh, dump her, not worth it, trust me. If you've never met your girls guy friends you are not her boyfriend. (Chris Rock quote reversed ;). )
I am a 21 year old girl. I will tell you straight up. By going through her personal things,such as her cell phone, is not always the right thing to do. I have been in a relationship for 5 years w my high school sweet heart, and i told him the day we started to date that most my friends are guys. I have grown up really close to my brother and his friends so i naturally felt more comfortable around guy friends. Like they said above, they made two valid points. Whats the ratio to girl and guy texts? And what did they talk about? But remember that some girls just get along better with guys. Does not mean that they want to fuck their guy friends. Btw most girls who can be one of the guys in a group of guy friends dont even want to be viewed as a sex object, they just want to feel like one of the guys. :)
I dunno, I have loads of guy friends, but my bf knows about every sinlge one of them. But if he didn't know about them it doesn't mean I'm fucking them, I reccommend if this make you uneasy to investigate lol Facebook their asses and ask some mutual friends about it haha Or just ask her
Well number one, do you use a rubber? Because you need to just in case. You could easily end up with something no matter how much you 'trust' her. Trust doesn't protect against HIV from a nasty girl.
IMO you cannot be 'friends' with ex-lovers, let alone txt them everyday... Something not right, speak to her & see wtf is going on.
Thats not true. I'm still friends with my ex and we get along great still. We don't talk everyday, but were both in another relationship. Its perfectly healthy to stay friends with your ex unless there was something seriously wrong with the relationship such as abuse.
Just hope you will be part of the gangbang that is most probably going to happen.