Is it normal to be unsure of your sexual orientation?

I am a girl, and I have always been attracted to boys, but lately I have been finding myself looking at girls more and wondering what it would be like to have a girlfriend.
I went on a date with a guy a couple weeks ago and we made out a whole bunch, and it didn't feel right, to be honest I felt it was kind of gross and found myself thinking it would be better with another girl.
I still check out guys and think they're hot and all, I just think that girls are good too.
Is this normal? Stories please

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87% Normal
Based on 76 votes (66 yes)
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  • Avant-Garde

    Yes it is. Before, I made some guesswork on my sexuality, which was in 2004, I don't know what I thought I was. I wouldn't call my child self asexual or straight but I can't remember having a concrete interest romance. In 2004, I found myself developing a crush on another girl and I didn't want to believe it. With time I was pretty much convinced that I was gay despite the fact that I had fallen in love for a male friend. Finally a few years later, it dawned on me that I was Bisexual. I have realized that sexuality is fluid-like; it isn't comprised on solely black and white settings. Take your time and see where things take you.

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  • DolphinAngel

    While being a teenager it's totally normal to be unsure about your sexuality as that's the point in your life where your sexuality develops so don't worry and see how it will turn out...

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  • kingsleycrowne

    throw the wood in the lake count to ten and bang benji on the tribal dance of the three alps. This will help immensely.

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  • AnceriI

    Sexuality works like a spectrum for me. The majority are at far ends on either side of the spectrum; while some people are nearer to the middle. As long as the other person makes you happy, does it matter that much if that person is a male or female?

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  • Yoosername

    definitely normal, but i also don't think it necessarily means that you're gay or even actually bi either. I think its legitimately possible for a straight girl to be turned on by other girls. just do whatever you want

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  • chelsealovesyou10

    Yes I'm in the same situation

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  • capcrunch6

    I'm unsure of how unsure I am to answer this question.

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  • la_la_la_la

    Hiya,

    I'm nearly 30 & I still am. I get on well with & fancy men, but I heard a song by a favourite – who is also female -- about, well, sex. It wasn't sad, but for some reason it made me cry. I cried so much I thought I’d throw up & have to leave the concert. I think it was to do with wanting to be, errrr, in the song, if you get my meaning. It now applies to any woman who looks/sounds like her, which a lot of women of a Certain Age do. I get teased that I fancy her. It could be because I thought she was amazing anyway but I’m not sure. Finally I just stopped caring.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    According to the posts on this website, yes. It is.

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  • DADNSCAL

    I went through several sexual phases before I settled on bisexual. I'm married with 2 kids, and she knows. We even check out guys together. She doesn't want me fooling around, because of diseases, and I'm OK with that. I wouldn't be any other way.

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  • Rigelle

    Thanks so much :)

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  • KatieLiz

    Totally normal :) Just do what feels right and see where it takes you :)

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