Is it normal to be unsure?

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We had a great time during our dates and I thank him for paying and he said your welcome! With a smiling face but since then he hasn't text me back. I figure he is with his family just as I told him I would be with my family but he could had still text me happy holidays or something. I don't know what his intentions are with me since I told him I wanted to take things slow with him and he agree that we should hang out again but he sends me photos of his p**** and I don't know if I pushed him away with telling him that since maybe he just wanted sex from me. What should I do?

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Tealights

7 years ago

Ah, you got dick pics lol!

You have two options:
1. Have sex with him, because that's really all that he wants at the moment.
2. Persevere, and keep taking things slow. He may lose interest and may not. Think about your own comfort and go at your own pace, if he lose interest, then move on; you're not a sex doll.

Hint: Choose 2.

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- sillygirl77
  
  7 years ago
  
  I wouldn't bother with this guy at all if he sent me dick pics after I said I wanted to take it slowly, but I'm very picky. I don't know what it's like to be in the dating world though these days so...
  
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  - Tealights
    
    7 years ago
    
    Me too lol! No worries, respect never changes.
    
    He sent the pics before he knew she wanted to take things slow. I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt since he stopped after she said no.
    
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    - sillygirl77
      
      7 years ago
      
      Yeah, I didn't read carefully enough, I'm kinda under the weather. I don't know what dating is like really? I married my college sweetheart, but I think I wouldn't want someone to send me that without permission.
      
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      - Tealights
        
        7 years ago
        
        I hope you feel better soon.
        
        Sadly, pics like that are normal. Instead of asking, the picture is their form of asking if you want sex or not. It becomes a red flag if he doesn't stop sending them/keep talking dirty after you said no, or forcing you to send nudes back (or both). Our generation kinda sucks to be honest lol.
        
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        sillygirl77
        
        7 years ago
        
        Yeah sounds like it sucks. I wouldn't want any at all. I'd wait for a guy who didn't do that or be on my own :P
        
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    7 years ago
    
    Will he hasn't send me pixs after I told him that. But I'm still confused in what he wants from me.
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Yeah I'm going to follow your advice and see what happens. But he does seem like a good guy and I just want to know if I did something wrong since he won't text me back.
  
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  - McBean
    
    7 years ago
    
    Dick pics are a passive-aggressive way to say, "Let's fuck." You seem to perceive what you want to believe about this guy. His actions speaking loudly. He's saying he's not interested, sweetie.
    
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  - Tealights
    
    7 years ago
    
    Nah, you didn't do anything wrong.
    
    You're infatuated, so you're extremely aware of everything he does, which is normal. Just keep calm and patient. Christmas is a busy day, especially if family is involved; and remember you two neither been hanging out that long, nor established a relationship, so the deep connection isn't there yet.
    
    Enjoy the holidays, and causally ask if he wants to hang out on New Years day or something. If he doesn't reply right away, then don't sweat over it, just continue doing your own thing.
    
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Keepsake

7 years ago

Honestly now, any guy that sends dick pics to someone they're not really with should be enough of an indicator of what he's like.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Will we have been on dates.
  
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Helloworld101

7 years ago

He probably could give two shits less that you said lets take it slow alright guys only think with there dicks so let me tell you if you are not stern with what you say he will say nothing or not want to talk to you at all so say somthing like 'i dontknow you well' or 'i only do that with guys i want to date' see but hes most likely a fuck boy so thats all he wants!!!!!!

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- Ipooprainbows
  
  7 years ago
  
  Spot on
  
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Ellenna

7 years ago

So did you text him or are you just sitting around expecting him to do all the running? It is 2017 you know

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- Cedric_Diggory
  
  7 years ago
  
  Actually, it's 2016.
  
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  - Ellenna
    
    7 years ago
    
    Yeah I know, typo I missed but it's close enough
    
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  - CUNTS_TWATS
    
    7 years ago
    
    For only 5 more days
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  I text him Merry Christmas.
  
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Ipooprainbows

7 years ago

Honestly ! Why don't u girls get it??
All guys want is to stick their dick in a hole. Him sending you dick pics already is a red flag that this is all he's after. You want a real, loving relationship? Then date a girl.

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- Ellenna
  
  7 years ago
  
  Ha ha that's funny: so all lesbian relationships are real and loving? The main difference I've ever noticed (apart from the obvious physical ones) is that most women are better than most men at talking honestly about feelings, but some of them are not. And of course the sex is different.
  
  I've experienced violence in four sexual relationships: twice from men and twice from women, and been financially ripped off by one male and two females, so enough of the idealistic stuff about lesbian relationships.
  
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  - Ipooprainbows
    
    7 years ago
    
    Apparently sex is pretty much the same. Yes a female would have to use an apparatus such as a dildo to provide the penetration effect like a guy. Lesbian sex is better in the way that its scientifically proven to last much longer than sex with a guy.
    
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    - Ellenna
      
      7 years ago
      
      No she wouldn't! Lots of lesbians don't use dildoes or anything else for penetration other than fingers or tongues. And yeah it can last a lot longer because one orgasm doesn't end it as it usually does for a male
      
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      - Ipooprainbows
        
        7 years ago
        
        Oops well my bad in the first part :p
        
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  There must a guy out there who does want to get know who they are with.
  
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CUNTS_TWATS

7 years ago

OP , its called a cock.
Was he popping wood in the pics ?
Have you ever seen his naked cock and nut sack in the flesh ?

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- Helloworld101
  
  7 years ago
  
  wow your straight forward lol
  
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