Is it normal to be unfaithful....

No I don't think it's normal. But it's common. It's wrong but it happens. When u get married u r supposed to only have eyes for ur spouse. Of coursethis is hard there r many goodlooking ppl out there. However those who cheat r pieces of shit, no matter what te circumstance is. If other ppl can stay faithful then so can they. Don't get married or get into a relationship if u don't have te self control. An if these feelings do come up ppl should tell their partners not resort to ruining the relationship. I especialy hate it when they do this and have children.

No, kill him with a steak knife.

It's not ok in a relationship why wud it be ok after you merry?!

Noooooooooo..... I would choke my fiance to death slowely and painfully while i burn him with cigarettes! And then i would cut him into pieces and bury him in the other woman's garden :)... Hey, love hurts

Sadly yes. But that doesn't make it right.

That´s the worst thing a man can do, in my country it´s normal, I feel bad of see it on every corner. I will never be unfaithful to my future wife.

It is not at all normal. the married man who thinks like this is bastard...

It's NOT normal. You would normally be faithful to your spouse. You're going to have desires and maybe even little crushes on someone else, that's unavoidable. At some point you will have an opportunity to cheat. You have to make up your mind beforhand that you're never going to cheat. It's part of being a good husband, hell, it's part of being a good person. Cheating has severe consequences that can destroy people lives. It causes alot of emotional pain and you will have to live with that guilt forever. Why would anyone throw away everthing you have invested in a relationship and your future for 10 minutes of selfish fun. That something a politician would do.

hm hopefully one has married a person they respect and love over everything in this world and would not be able to cheat on that person!! if a man or woman cheats on you they don't really love you, not to the full.

No.. Since some1 desided to get married that means that, that some1 is the one. I really hate this. In marriage the most important thing is honesty. If something changes u still have to talk about it. and if u want to sleep with other people just tell it, and get a divorce.! Well..i'm not married, but if ever get, I believe in what i said. And if I ever get to the point of cheating, i don't think i could handle it..i always prefer the truth..so...

Yes, and it's normal for women to be unfaithful to their husbands as well.

So many people enter into marriage thinking that they will never be attracted to anyone but their spouse. It's so naive. I think the ones who don't end up cheating as a result of those attractions are the ones that were realistic about their natural human desires and set boundaries for themselves in advance so they are prepared to stop in a situation that could possibly get out of control.

No you are merried, break up with your wife and have as many woman you want.

Unfortunately there are a lot if cheating bastards (male and female) out there. But no it's not right and anyone who wants to remain married shouldn't cheat. You don't cheat on someone you love.

By the way, invoking nature as an excuse is lame. It's perfectly natural to crap on the floor and go about naked and on all-fours, but we don't do it. We are supposed to rise above our bestial natures. Those who can't or won't are animals.

infidelity from either gender is just plain wrong, at least in terms of a strong moral code. In practical terms, when men do it, they are rightfully considered cads. When women do it, they are showing their empowerment, and plus its the guys' fault. Don't believe me? take a look at how many websites exist that encourage men to be unfaithful.

Now, go look at the ones that encourage it from women. Start with this one:

womensinfidelity.com

It's all about encouraging and excusing wives to be unfaithful.

Double standards piss me off.

no!

It's normal but it's totally NOT right!!

I agree with Sassie ... it takes two to tangle ... the husbands aren't switching teams, they're with women who are cheating cheating.

You have to have a handle on your sexuality including not getting too carried away with it. The bigger things in a marriage (common goals, shared values. communication, respect) are what makes or breaks it & sets the stage for fidelity.

yes its normal. Try not to but don't be stunned. In fact women like more than men. Just ask my wife or any of her servers. (if they are willing ti talk)