Is it normal to be unable to talk to otheres ?

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Well its obvious from the title
My problem is that im unable to talk to otheres , im so shy
Somtimes when others talk to me or ask me anything i just cant answer and start sweeting , i realy cried alot becouse of this , i know the answer but so shy to even move my toungh , and im more shy when i talks with my relatives , i hate it and hate myself becouse of this , mybe in school im much better but with my family and relatives i even dont move from my seet , realy im telling the truth
I realy need help i though if i grow up i will be less shy but year by year its gets worser and worser , sometimes i just stay at home for weeks .
HELP ME

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Look up selective mutism. It's usually caused by severe social anxiety.

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  • ferra
    9 years ago

    everyone thanks for your help !!
    Im glad that there is people like you around the world 

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  • geovana_oli97
    9 years ago

    I'm also shy, not as much. But I got really shy in my life bc I didn't go out as mush. So even if it's just with your parents or brother/sister just hang around where there's people, you dont't have to talk to them just start by being comfortable around others. Look around and try to stay relax,and when you feel like talking just say it or start with asking a question or something.. It makes it a little bit better if you start with relatives bc you know them a little better and know that there not going to hurt you, observe people also, see who's nice and don't over think about,I always over thought about everything before I would speak and that just makes it even worse, so just go for it....

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago

    i have a similar problem but i only have trouble talking to friends or strangers, not to my family. first you have to be comfortable talking with your family, then you can be comfortable talking to others

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    9 years ago

    I wasnt like that before , but now i cant even talks throw the phone to order something , its realy annoys me
    And can a doctor help me with that ? after all im not crazy or something , and going to the doctor will make me look like a one to others

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  • seakelp
    9 years ago

    Talk to a therapist.

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  • clevelandashkenaziatheist
    9 years ago

    There are therapies for these kinds of social disorders. Go to the doctor. You can be cured.

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  • Parky_Parker
    9 years ago

    Have you talked to your doctor about this?

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