Is it normal to be turned on when a guy is nice to another guy?

okay firstly, call me a masochist because I'm only attracted to guys who don't act like they like me that much (that's a whole different issue). but I find it a huge turn on when I see guys being nice to one another - like today I saw a guy help his friend button his cuffs for him after seeing attempt and fail to do it himself. I will also more likely develop a crush on a guy whom I always see with the same male companion. does anyone else experience this????

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  • Derpinism

    I am a guy and reading this post written by
    a girl, I totally think this sounds so hot how you evaluate us based on our male interactions.

    one of my female colleagues who is interested in me - she pays quite a lot of attention to how I interact with other guys at my work. She certainly likes it when I am polite.

    I thought it was strange cuz girls normally go for jerks and someone polite would probably be a turn off

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  • Lonely2

    We all sort of evaluate ourselves in comparison to other people and as soon as somebody is available to us we think..hmmm...could I do better? Unattainable means they are higher status or have a lot of options...that is not necessarily true...just how it is percieved....

    now for the guys who are nice to other guys....you are evaluating certain positive traits in a potential mate...and kindness, nurturance, loyalty, etc...are all good traits..however, if a guy was being this way towards a girl..it may be only an attempt to sex with her ..not sincere...but a guy who is this way towards another guy is more geniune...so it gives you a more honest look at their personality

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  • Crapper

    Do homos turn you on?

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  • myshroom

    not only it is normal, it may be quite common.
    many may experience it and not know what it is or why you feel this way. not that you need to though.

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  • Anime7

    It seems like your attraction to people who you don't think like you could have something to do with this. Like I mean it sounds like you're attracted to the thought of possibly gay men, since chances are that they won't like you. I'm not saying that helping your male friend button up his shirt is gay or anything. Hell, even if those two guys were gay there's nothing wrong with that. But I just feel like you're attraction stems from wanting people who are unattainable, and I feel like maybe you project some sort of homosexual fetish towards these men. I know I'm making big assumptions here, and I mean no offense with any of it, but that's a just my theory as to why you have this attraction.

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    • Flotsamist

      I've never actually had a crush on an actually gay guy though /:

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      • Anime7

        oh ok, well then that blows my theory out of the water. Honestly I have nothing to input to the post cause I really don't know if this is something people are actually attracted to.

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