Is it normal to be turned on by your female lover's crying?

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So my gf was crying over the phone about something(not very serious matter) and I was trying to console her but I had a big bo*er during that. I noticed this a few times before as well. I am worried now that is an indication that I want to hurt her subconsciously. I love my gf very much and I see us married in near future.
is it normal for the crying to be such a turn on?

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Based on 249 votes (118 yes)
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  • Ipooprainbows
    11 years ago

    not normal at all...This is a first I've ever heard of this

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  • Aichn
    11 years ago

    Maybe it makes you feel secure, needed, valued, or relied upon etc
    And that can create arousal. Doesn't necessarily mean you want to hurt her, unless you get some form of high from causing her emotional pain or making her feel bad or worthless. Of its the first, it's okay, of it's the second or a bit of both, maybe see a counsellor or something? :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I think may be the first thing you mentioned. I've never hurt anyone physically and will never hurt my gf but I think I feel needed and special to see someone I love is open with me. Thanks for you reply.

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  • samcrow
    11 years ago

    Your gf is being who she is, an emotional being. You are attracted to your gf crying. You comfort and console her. She feels loved and you feel needed. Its harmony and reconciliation at its finest. And in the process on gets a hard on and the other lubricated. Yes... It might be a turn on for her as well when you take up the role of a man and ummmm comfort her if you will.

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  • Apple_guy
    10 years ago

    Normal. I would get super horny when my gf would cry!

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  • ktbelle99
    11 years ago

    Well my bf gets turned on whenever I am mad and it's to the point where he enjoys me being angry so I guess it could be normal maybe she has a really cute voice or something when she cries. My boyfriend said I look sexy when I'm angry so it's kind of normal

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  • mazgan
    11 years ago

    try whiping her see if u get a boner

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  • BHolt
    11 years ago

    It's called Dacryphilia, normal (kinda).

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dacryphilia

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    • Miss.Kitty
      11 years ago

      It's jst a fetish. Everyone has something, even if they havnt found it yet. Don't worry u r normal for humanity ;)

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    You sound a tad bit sadistic. This isn't the first time I've heard of this. I've seen some other posts about this on here.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      May be I am but I can never hurt anyone so don't know

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