Is it normal to be totally inlove and then totally hate?:(

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I have been with my boyfriend for 2years, we are in a serious relationship I'm totally inlove with him like I get all lovey and love him with my heart .The next minute , I totally hate him for th stupidest reasons ! Last night I was sooo in love with him , woke up in the morning realised he didn't like my FB photos and got all mad cos he was on FB this morning , I'm soooo jealous and insucure I hate the way I am ecspecially because of the way I treat him I'm always saying sorry .. By the way he's a really nice guy but I always love him one minute and the next I hate him is this normal?

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Based on 51 votes (20 yes)
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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    Wait, what? You were mad because he didn't like your facebook photo's?

    I know I'm not an expert on serious relationships, but wow... don't you think it's a little over the top?

    Anyway, I don't think love-hate relationships are healthy. Ask yourself: do you enjoy his company because of his personality, or just because you like to have a boyfriend? If you answer the former, then I think you're on the right track.

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  • forever_anon
    11 years ago

    To some extent, it's normal to feel like you're not absolutely in love with your partner all the time. But if you find yourself getting angry about small things, maybe you should re-evaluate the relationship and work on resolving your insecurities.

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  • blue_burr
    11 years ago

    You need a life!!! U hate ur bf bcuz of Facebook come now. He should leave ur dumbass!! Laugh in ur face and leave. Be like hahahahahaha did ya check facebook today?? See I didn't like your picture, hahahahahaha yea bye find another guy to like your pics.

    MAYBE IT'S BECAUSE UR PICS ARE UGLY!!!?

    Facebook is not that important. Look at values. take a step outside. That upsets me to even be mad at ur bf over Facebook it would be a little different if he was talkin to other bitches on there but because he's not like ur pics.......

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  • CraneyCrow
    11 years ago

    It's normal to be mad at, even hate, a person you love at times, but if you find yourself hating him more often, or even as often, as you love him, it's time to find a new boyfriend.

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  • manii92
    11 years ago

    This is bipolar syndrome.. If he's really a nice guy like you say he is then you don't deserve him.. #honesty

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    This really doesn't seem healthy.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yep i totally get this.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    If hate was love then I hate you
    If love was hate then I love you
    I hate you
    Because I love you
    But why do I love you
    If I hate you
    But why do I want you
    When I hate you
    Life and emotions have strange questions
    Like when love turns to hate
    I hate you
    Therefore...
    I love you

    -Weird, emo, 9th grade version of KeddersPrincess

    I wrote this when I was an over emotional 14 year old who was in love with some dude who I swore I hated. Not saying that you're an over emotional high schooler, but as far as the "I hate him but I love him" thing goes, it's nothing original, and judging by your post, it seems like you have more hate for yourself than the guy you're writing about. I encourage you to go your seperate ways for a while because it sounds like you need to put some concentration on yourself. Remember, you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else, and that's just the honest truth.

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  • Leigh30
    11 years ago

    It's normal, try toning down the stress and talk about things.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    You hate him because he didn't like your facebook photos?
    Yeah, that's not normal. That is no reason to get mad at him. It's a bit immature.

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    Normal. I feel the exact same way about my ex girlfriend.

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  • SangoNyappy
    11 years ago

    Not sure if troll or 12 years old on IIN.

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