Is it normal to be torn between feelings and sex drive?

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It's been a long time since I've liked a guy. And I really like this guy. He makes it pretty clear he likes me too.

The problem is, I'm usually fucking up stuff with guys because I'm too eager to fuck them. And I sooo wanna fuck this guy. But, I really like him. And I don't want to fuck it up, since we might have a shot as a couple, even when I'm not good with relationships. I sort of actually want this to work out.

What do you think I should do?

And is it normal for a girl to be like this? Please comment!

DO SOMETHING so you can be together! 1
wait for him to do something 1
Just fuck him already! 1
you're a weird person... 0
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  • SouthGuy81
    11 years ago

    My last long term relationship lasted 5 years and we had sex within 2-3 hours of meeting each other. After that we just met on the weekends for sex and slowly realised we had a lot in common.
    Sex is a good ice breaker.
    I think when guys say they were put off a girl that put out straight away it's because they're trying to cover up the fact that they slept with someone they wouldn't want a relationship with any way. They don't want to look like a cad in front of any other potential conquests.
    PS. There's nothing wrong with sleeping with someone you don't want a relationship with as long as you're both ok with it.

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    • prasatko
      11 years ago

      I agree with you on this and my experience is similar to yours.

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  • lc1988
    11 years ago

    I'm with SouthGuy on this one. I had sex with my current bf after the 2nd or 3rd date...we can't agree on which one. He says 2nd...I say 3rd but regardless, we're still truckin along after 3 years. Sometimes it works.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Why, if a girl fucks a guy soon is she no good for a relationship but there's nothing wrong with that guy for fucking her?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Huh. You have a point. It's not like I think that would make me non-girlfriend matterial, but won't fucking too early throw off the whole balance of things?

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      • shade_ilmaendu
        11 years ago

        Honestly it depends on both of you. I've never had a problem with that myself and I know plenty of people who'd agree, but I've seen enough arguments on here for the other side to understand it's a commonly held opinion.

        I think it's kind of silly and should really just depend, more than anything on how comfortable you feel with that person. My last relationship lasted a year and we're still very good friends, and we'd hung out a few times previously but essentially our whole relationship started as a one night stand. Took it slowish after that, realised we wanted more and it was pretty nice.

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