Is it normal to be too small for anal?

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Warning: TMI.

I have a boyfriend that really likes anal. It's his fetish, really. He loves short skirts and panties and knee socks, which makes sense because I wear them all of the time. I actually would love to try anal and have attempted quite a few times. When we have sex and he slips a finger in, it's just wonderful.

There's just one problem. I can't stretch far enough to fit him. I can barely stretch at all without hurting myself, even it it's only a bit at a time. I want it but I just can't seem to. We use lubrication and heavy foreplay but I still just won't get big. I have to admit, his member is rather large. It's about 8.5 inches and too thick for me to wrap a whole hand around. But, still. How can I possibly stretch large enough to fit it? Even if it's just the tip, I'd be completely happy. Is it normal for me to have such a hard time with it?

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  • sillygirl77
    7 years ago

    Have you tried using small toys and slowly transiting to slightly bigger ones?

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    • NotAgain..
      7 years ago

      This

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Yeah. Unless I masturbate multiple times a day, which is usually impossible, it won't enlargen

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      • NotAgain..
        7 years ago

        Not masturbating but with him using them on you when you two have sex

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  • KingTermite
    7 years ago

    Start small and work up to it. You might also try a lube with a desensitsing agent.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Don't do it!

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    • NotAgain..
      7 years ago

      Why not?? If she wants to she should give it a go

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  • analsexonly
    7 years ago

    It's normal in that it's the natural state for most girls before training. You just need to train. It sounds like you have been, but you'll have to keep doing it, gradually, over time. Wear butt plugs more often. When you're comfortable with one size, go up to a bigger size. Get to where you can fit a plug or a dildo similar in size to your boyfriend regularly, and you should be fine. But it will take time to get there. Masturbate anally on a daily basis, and don't masturbate without something stretching your ass at the same time.

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  • _Mehhhh_
    7 years ago

    Firstly, lube is your friend. Anal without lube is always vile.

    But yes it's normal, the anus doesn't have as much natural ability to stretch and take larger objects like the vagina can. It's something you need to train. Start small, gradually work your way up.

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  • Osho
    7 years ago

    Anal is bad for health.

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