Is it normal to be too shy?

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Is it normal that when I meet a guy, lets say from a friend or something like that, that when it comes down to hanging out for the first time alone I get almost physically sick? I get so nervous that I can't bring myself to do it. I make excuse after excuse until the guy gives up on the idea or thinks that I might even be crazy. Then I feel like crap because I really want to hangout and actually have a life but I feel like I'm so shy that it's a huge problem. I feel as though I am completely outgoing when it comes to hanging out with people I know but a complete idiot when it comes to people I don't. It's ruining my chances of ever meeting someone and or getting into a serious relationship. What do I do? How do I fix this?

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    I think you are afraid the guy won't let you suck his cock, don't worry with a little convincing most guys will let you. Offer him a few dollars too and then suck the lad off like you want to, you know that is what this is really all about, don't you?

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  • jamustheignoramus
    13 years ago

    The word 'too' indicates that it is not normal.

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  • pma1213
    14 years ago

    Ok but here is another problem. Sometimes I don't even make it there. I psych myself out of going.

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  • DiabloStarzx3
    14 years ago

    Noo u need to work on being more confident n secure of urself

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    practice makes perfect. how about trying it but not staying too long. you know, tell them you have to leave for a dr. appointment or something. try to ease into it.

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