Is it normal to be together, but feel like your single?

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My current bf and I were previously dating for 4 months when he broke up with me via text on his birthday. His reasoning was that work was getting stressful ...etc. We had no contact for 2 weeks when he shows up wanting me back. I felt that I needed closure so we started dating again, but I feel like he's using me this time. I'm seriously contemplating breaking up with him, but face to face because I'm not a coward. What do you think I should do?

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  • Funkywabit
    11 years ago | pl

    Kick that chump to the curb!! Breaking up via a text message is chicken shit

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    • girdoom6
      11 years ago

      I'm thinking of doing just that. Thank you for the smile though needed it.

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  • NiceKitty
    11 years ago

    Yeah.. Leave the bastage.
    He came back [from what it sounds like] because HE got lonely. Not because of you. Himself..

    Leave em. You can do better

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  • girdoom6
    11 years ago

    Thank you all for your input I really appreciate it, and I ended it.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      Dumbass, you listened to people on the internet? Why can't you think for yourself?

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      • girdoom6
        11 years ago

        I did think for myself thank you for your input we know how some pride themselves on being in the lime light.

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago

          That made no sense.

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  • BlondeRedhead
    11 years ago

    It sounds like he's just not that into you, and that's ok, because you're really not that into him, either....

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    Just go for it! Doesn't matter where or how. But this doesn't sound like its going to be a healthy relationship at all, if you don't break up. Best of luck!

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  • keef
    11 years ago

    I feel like he broke up with you so he could fuck a different girl a few times without it being "cheating", although it's super grimy.

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  • Sog
    11 years ago

    He was cheating on you but then at the end of the two weeks he changed his mind about the other girl. This guy is sleaze.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I feel like he broke up with you so he could fuck a different girl a few times without it being "cheating", although it's super fun.

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  • Leigh30
    11 years ago

    You deserve better than that and you find someone who will treat you as so.

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  • Fabulous
    11 years ago

    Sex solves just masturbate him while wrapped in a trash bag it's kinky.

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  • disthing
    11 years ago

    A lot of you are pretty childish. Breaking up sounds like the right choice, but it doesn't have to be cruel or nasty, or as some kind of revenge.

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  • itmehninz
    11 years ago

    Mess that shit up and dump him like he was last week's fucking garbage!!!

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  • kingsleycrowne
    11 years ago

    Yeah break up with him, move on

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    Yes it's normal, and when I first realized this, i instantly fell out of love with her, then realized the only reason i even loved her in the first place was because of her girlish charm and how much she was into me, then I made a list of 100 things i didn't like about her, and 1 thing i did like about her. I broke it off right then.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    If you are not happy with him, and would be happier without him, then put this relationship behind you. Good luck with your choices

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  • Agappe
    11 years ago

    Trust your gut. Sounds like you should break up. When break ups happen during an event (e.g. his birthday) it's not because of 'school' or 'work.' I think people see it as a way to downplay the breakup so they feel better about doing it because there's major change going about and a big event to distract them. Or there could have been another girl, who knows.

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  • Thatguy777
    11 years ago

    It's normal. Last year I was really close with this girl, and it felt like we were dating even though we weren't.

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  • girdoom6
    11 years ago

    But if I do it via text wouldn't that make me as low as him?

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