Is it normal to be this way?

Normally, I'm a pretty relaxed person and generally nice towards people but for some reason, I can't stand some of my closest family members. Even when they don't do anything that would normally be considered annoying, I just automatically get a short fuse and snap. I always feel horrible afterwords 'cause I know I'm the wrong and that I might have hurt their feelings. I don't want to but it's like I can't stop it. No matter how hard I try to be genuinely nice, I can't seem to stop myself from being mean.

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  • peterr

    Ever suck a cock. This will bring you to your level of accomplishment verses attitude. Suck and swallow. Male or female, a cock in your mouth will be the barometer of your life.

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  • sissycakes

    i don't get annoyed by my family, but i too have in the past had the same problem. but eventually made myself a better person, and really have changed my attitude with god's help. it sounds corny, but it is true.

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  • joybird

    Your family may love you but sadly may not actually like you. This means that when you move out, none of them will stay in contact with you. I have a very nasty bad-tempered sister who can't hide her hatred so she moved to another country and none of us bother with her. She does have friends that she manages to treat respectfully, so we let them be her new 'family'.

    I advise you to go to your room and punch the life out of your pillow. Remember that after you say something, you can't un-say it, even after you apologise. We were taught, "A closed mouth carries a wise head" so don't feel that you always need to comment.

    In the UK we have herbal tablets called 'Kalms' that really help to take the edge off your temper. I have them in the house for my teenage son - who has no reason to be nasty but who sometimes thinks he will chance it. I usually open the front door and throw him out, telling him to find another home that will tolerate his crap!

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  • It's okay. They're your family and have to love you regardless :)

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  • KatieLiz

    I'll be following this question because I an also like this.
    It's like behavioural tourettes, it's just kind of there

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