Is it normal to be this shy for everything??

I'm a really shy person and it's really annoying because when I really want to speak up I don't I can't and I don't know how I can break out of this bubble! I can't even go ask for a box at a restaurant because of my shyness. I can't even express my own opinion because of this shyness! Is there anyone out there who feels like this? Is it normal? PlZ help me break out of this shy bubble and not be shy or fear ppl!

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Based on 52 votes (27 yes)
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  • It sucks huh lol

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  • DannyKanes

    Or try practicing in front of a mirror :-) Be confident, stand up tall and go "Hey! Hey waiter, hey waiter, hey! Give me a box fool!" :-)

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    Holy shit the comments posted so far are shitty. Here's some real advice. I suggest you see some sort of doctor. I'm almost 100% you have Social Anxiety Disorder. What happens, is that the anxiety becomes too much where it impedes daily social functions like simply holding a conversation with people, doing something in front of people etc. Just like the experiences you have had.

    I'm not a doctor, but I'm pretty sure it's that. Read up on it on some medical websites and then consult a doctor or specialist so they can help you out of your funk! Remember, your troubles are experienced by more people than you think. You aren't alone!

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  • wreckd

    Mental Health Center. Go there, get drugs and therapy. It works.

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  • Kiklop

    Therefore you are young. With the time it pass away.

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  • *girl*

    I have a social anxiety disorder and it's like that for me too! I'm currently getting help for it by seeing a therapist and taking pills. I'm gradually getting better. Maybe it could help you too.

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    • daydreamer394

      Did it work?

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  • (:sweet:)

    Just get the balls and speak up but i guess its normal everybody is different. We cant all be outspoken

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  • Painfulnote

    What's so funny about this? anyway if you're shy don't worry you don't have to be.
    http://www.youmeworks.com/shynesstocharisma.html
    and If you ask me about normal I don't think it's normal,the site above might help you good luck!

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  • Faceless

    Just do what I do and stick a gun in peoples faces. My opinions are always heard and never wrong and I get what I want when I want it. Like your wallet for instance. Hand it over. Now.

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  • haha go to drama classes so you can pretend convincingly

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  • HAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH no O.o

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