Is it normal to be this obsessed over your boyfriend?

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I have been going out with my boyfriend for a while now and I'm beginning to worry if I am becoming a little obsessive over him. I think about him all the time, get distracted from things I am supposed to be doing, check my phone constantly to see if he has texted and feel like I cannot be happy unless he is around. I always feel happy when he is around me but the rest of the time I just feel sad and lonely, I don't know if this is normal or not. I stay up late every night talking to him on msn, often until 2am, when I have to get up early in the morning and I am beginning to suffer sleep deprivation. I love him so much, but I'm beginning to wonder whether loving him, is taking away from my life.

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  • FJK_frm_AK25
    8 years ago

    With my ex I used to love she did that in the beggining but got irritating towards the end.I'd hafta literally hide from her when I needed alone time.

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  • golden_showers
    9 years ago

    you're gonna smother him and he will get sick of you.. LAY OFF

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    My gf does the same thing. Shes always calling and texting. Shes sorta annoying... That and shes imaginary

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  • Rachel_louise
    11 years ago

    To be honest i am in the same situation at the moment.. I have this thing if my boyfriend dosnt answer my texts fast enough i start getting impatient and i start getting worried... and i get paranoid that im not gunna see him if his phones turned off.. now he is working i don't see him enough as it is and i am quite a paranoid person anyways.. to all the girls out there you are not the only one there is quite alot of people out there in the same situation but yeah anyways i do get quite paranoid when his phones of or he dosnt reply or when we have an argument and we have made up.. but the next day he dosnt speak to me but i do love my boyfriend alot but i doo want to stop beeing so paranoid:(

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  • TAN
    11 years ago

    Think about how it will be when you break up.

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  • lalaland1122
    12 years ago

    get a life, you will be much happier and more attractive to him if you have a life outside of him

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I do that same thing with my bf untill he broke his fone so I have no way to talk to him exept at school

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  • ruralfrights
    13 years ago

    Naaawww. Surely not!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Mabey your in love? Or crazy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It's normal, and don't expect him to be the same way back because women always put 110% and more into relationships (prolly more than we should) and we won't get the same amount back from the men. Don't get me wrong, there are men that put a lot into relationships but women still always put way more than need be. It's a fault of ours.

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  • sweetlilwookims
    13 years ago

    Isn't that that what is supposed to happen before you get married?

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  • steph413
    13 years ago

    The problem is that you are letting this guy determine how worthy you are of love instead of loving yourself first. It's very normal, but you should try to change your outlook for a better relationship and life in general.

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  • fox
    14 years ago

    I guarentee it's making you less attractive to him . Advice would be to get a hobby and have him think you are active and interesting by having some cool hobby that you Can do. Girls have no hobbies these days but men

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    • PalestinianGuy
      11 years ago

      This ^

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  • Ginger400
    14 years ago

    Just lay off a little if he's not doing all that for you ? Why do it for him

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