Is it normal to be this jealous of someone?

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There's this girl who's friends with my friends. EVERYONE likes her and when ever she's around nobody pays attention to me. I'm so jealous of her confidence and looks that its stopped me doing the things i wanna do, like going out with my friends, because SHE'S always there with us. I'm so unsociable now and its literally ruining my life.
Have any of you ever felt this way about someone before?

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Based on 62 votes (51 yes)
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  • wornoutwoman
    13 years ago

    My sister has always seemed very confident, then she told me her confidence is fake....she changed her looks and acts like the life of the party but she said deep down she has very low self esteem.

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  • kid-trekkie
    13 years ago

    i've felt like this, just ignore that shes so confident and try to steal the attention back. don't give up your social life just cause of her.
    your important too

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Same here, i just killed the person.

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  • kawaiigurl
    10 years ago

    same thing happens to me with this one girl in my group of friends. i am yet to find a solution to this problem :(

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  • Fartyr
    10 years ago

    I would hate her and avoid her

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Try asking her if she's pretty with out her make up and shit

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  • Bbygirl.
    13 years ago

    I used to be jealous of this girl at my high school last year. EVERYONE liked her also. She had a cute bf, PERFECT looks, Sweet, Great at cooking class. She was like the total package. I hated her for it.

    You just got to accept that there's always gonna be someone in the WORLD that's either prettier, smarter, funnier, skinnier, ect than you, but if you don't control the jealousy. It'll control YOU.

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  • CharlotteLily
    13 years ago

    hahahhaahha

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  • imtherealpandabear
    13 years ago

    Just be more confident!

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    it's normal to be a bit jealous, but not to stop doing things you want to do. maybe if you become friends with her you'll feel better about her :)

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  • lewlew80
    13 years ago

    I dont think ur jealous, it might be more like ur intimidated and u shut down, u just need to get strong and overcome those things and besides, being jealous is a waste of energy, u should be using that energy to try and get ur social life back :)

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