Is it normal to be this jealous

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After me and my friend entered highschool from a rather small school. We both made friends, but she made more than me. She never bothers to inculde me with her plans. She is making plans for the next week right after yhey hangout. They also do everything that we always did (make videos). She hirt me badly making me feel outcasted. I still want to be her friend and she still wants to be my friend, but we never see each other anymore. Any advice how to get her back as my best frienf again, because i am tired of feeling outcasted?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I've got the exact problem, I too went from a small school to a big high school...last year two of my best friends all of a sudden found other people and we went from chillin' everyday to not seeing eachother for months. I used to think if I showed them a good time they'd want to hang out again, but the truth is they've moved on and theres nothing you can do about it. Every once in a while try and get together though because there still your friends. I know its hard but you just have to move on. It takes a while and there might be quite a few lonely weekends, but eventually things will get better. Alot of times if you hang out with certain people that have alot of friends other people will want to hang out with you too or want to be included next time you guys make plans. Be yourself and enjoy life.

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  • foxx5
    14 years ago

    I have a best friend, we have been friends for 18yrs, true friendship will withstand anything. We at times have been inseperatable and then sometimes life gets busy and we won't talk for days sometimes weeks! However, when we finally touch base again, it's like we've never been apart at all. Stop thinking so much about her and start thinking about you and all the new adventures you can share with her when you get together again. It's normal to drift apart, if she's a real friend it'll all work out. Sweetie quit trying so hard, have fun and meet new people! :0)

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  • Ginger400
    14 years ago

    I know exactly what u r going through but if it's over then it's over! however you can always call and ask her r u mad at me And talk about it's embarassing, but it can either fix it, or end it If it's ment to be ended.

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  • Laena
    14 years ago

    Why don't you try making some new friends separate from hers. It is normal for people to grow apart. You guys can still maintain a friendship even if it's not exactly what it used to be. You may find that you like the new people at your school. Reframe this as an opportunity to make some new friends.

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