Is it normal to be this demanding during sex?

Sooo, I am one of those girls that like to be dominated during sex and my hubby is completely fond of this. While we were having sex:

during missionary: I said "go slow," "okay that's perfect *insert his name here* ___," and he put my legs by his shoulders, and I said, "kiss my breast," "choke me."

during doggie: I said "spank me," "pull my hair," and he called me a bad girl.

While I was on top: I told him to "put his hands on my waist," then I moved one of them to hold my breast, and the other one to my throat so he could choke me.

during reverse cowgirl: he was doing some of the work and I said "keep going, don't stop ___"

SOOO, I didn't realize it at the time, but now that I look back I feel like I talked A LOT. I mean, I've heard of communication being a good thing, and I wasn't being rude when I told him to do those things, but I was just wondering if its normal to have this many preferences during sex.

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Comments ( 8 )
  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Sounds like you are the dominant one. Lol.

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  • Phycokitty

    its better than being quiet and letting him guess and being unsatisfyd

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Sure what ever floats your boat.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    No because I am sure he wants to satisfy you as much as he wants you to satisfy him. You should tell your partner what you want during sex.

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  • quentari

    So long as you're both getting off it's fine. He probably loves that you're one of the (seemingly) few women that communicate what you want in the bedroom lol rather than let 14 years pass without an orgasm

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  • Darkoil

    That sounds like a fairly normal run of the mill shag.

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  • KacyWatson

    You are going great. You are doing it correctly if both are having a wonderful lovely time :)

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  • disfunkshinal

    Letting your man know your needs? You monster! But, seriously. I'm the same way but more aggressive. My fiance says it's a turn on. Men love a tigress in bed.

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