Is it normal to be this clingy to your bf?

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So I'm worried about my friend.. She has a boyfriend she's been dating roughly 3 or 4 months. It's already escalated to a very serious relationship. She dated this other kid for three years. We all thought they'd be forever. Well she kissed his best friend and they broke up and she started dating the best friend.. Then they broke up and she automatically dates this other kid. Then they break up and she finds this kid through her friend on FB's friends list.. So now they've been together for a few months. All they do is hang out together. He told he wants to marry her and they're planning on getting engaged. One day she had me looking at wedding dresses online with her. But everything revolves around this kid. She makes life choices around their time together. And hangs out with friends only when her bf is busy But whenever we hang she always has to be texting this guy or talking about him. I'm scared. She's building her life around a guy she honestly barely has known ... She's only 19

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  • ZooManOtroy
    11 years ago

    Honestly, the best thing you can do is just go for it. Lunge in and try to make out w her, make it good so she forgets the guy.

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  • trababy330
    11 years ago

    i think its awesome tht ur concerned about ur friend....ur not meddling or being nosy...when u love someone tht means you do what u can to protect them, and when they are showing dangerous and quite frankly desperate signs tht is your job as their friend to point it out with love. We need peopl in our lives to be honest and express how they feel. Helping others comes from the understanding th evryon needs help from time to time evern if they dont know it....all u have to do is show ur friend how she doesnt even know him, ask her some question so she thinks ur interested and she'll be as open as she wants cuz she loves talking about him....keep asking deep questions that she wont know the answer too and finish it with, how are u gonna marry someone u barely know....jsut be loving, but stern with her.

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  • scary_back_fat
    11 years ago

    get on with you own life and stop meddling in other peoples

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    She just sounds boy crazy. Young people in love often talk about marriage, doesn't mean it's actually going to happen. If it does though, I say let her make her own decisions. She didn't ask you to start trying crystal meth with her or anything, I'm sure it's just innocent.

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago

    One possibility is that she has fallen in love with him. Normal. People have their priorities and for someone, their partners or their romantic relationships can be their priority number one. Normal and nothing wrong (even if now we are told that it is "healthy" and "modern" to have other priorities such as career, friends, individual hobbies etc and only then comes love or relationship with boyfriends. Although this is a popular trend nowadays, I do not see anything wrong with people who have different priorities.)

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Back Off bitch or i will fart on you

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  • Ilikecrisps
    11 years ago

    my ex also build a castle around me we had been together for 2 years and I thought it was time to break up with het since I did not love her anymore so then her heart broke and she did not know what ever to do anymore since her live revolved around me

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  • EAT_IT
    11 years ago

    I cling to most things tasty.

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    • scary_back_fat
      11 years ago

      pies are tasty

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