Is it normal to be this attached to a bestfriend?

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I have only known this person for about 3 years and we have only been best friends for about 1year maybe less. When we first met in 08 we instantly became friends (we are both girls) we were like sisters within the first week of meeting eachother. We liked the same things we did the same things we were exactly alike. But this girl at the time wasn't very popular and everyone didn't like her. I was actually pretty popular and I fought for her and I made sure everyone liked her. Then, it all ended. She doesn't talk to me anymore and when I go and try she never answers or she justs says yeah I know. When I sleptover for the last time (all the times before were so fun and I slept over like twice a week!) it was terrible. All she did was text her friends and complain. I actually sometimes cry so hard because I miss her. Not in a lesbian way. I miss her like crazy and it has been about 2 years since she was actually my best friend. I miss her and everytime i think about her and all the good times I ever spent with her I cry. I am even tearing up now :,( IIN?

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Based on 43 votes (35 yes)
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  • PumpkinKate
    12 years ago

    Aww... I feel bad just having read this :( That's very sad! I have had a few really good, super-close friends that for some reason just... stopped being friends, or drifted apart.

    It also made me very sad, it's 100% completely normal to grieve because of losing a really close friend. I'm sorry it happened :/ but what you're feeling just means you're a good person.

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    12 years ago

    Maybe she didn't like the popular lifestyle and felt resentment because you pushed her into it.

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  • laVero
    12 years ago

    Yes I think its normal. You miss her. Ihad a good friend n I backed off because she simply was too high maintenance for me. She was always there! On the phone, at my locker at my house, jeez! God forbid I didnt answer the phone! And she was always depressed. Anyhow, I do regret just cutting ties. I should of been honest. Why not simply adm her what happened. It will at least give you closure. ;D

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    This made me feel really sad :(((

    If you do get a chance to talk to her again, properly and seriously, please to it. It is normal to be this upset, but I don't think she realises how bad you feel about it.

    I think her new-found popularity went to her head. If she was never popular before, it is hardly surprising that she'd want to go out and do popular stuff. One day she'll fall, and you should be there to pick her up when she does.

    Do you have any idea why she is behaving this way? Can't you ask any of her other friends?

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  • michelle13
    12 years ago

    this is so normal my bestfriend is .. alittle bitch because she got "advanced" in the chest srea and has been ignoring my calls,texts,and IMS.

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    • MeAsIAm
      12 years ago

      Wow that friend is evil. Actually I'm more "advanced" in the chest area than my best friend but I just poke fun at her about it. We're still best friends, so it can't just be about that.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    People do fall in and out of friendships.
    As many people know we basically lose a lot of friends when school ends for good (not always though), this is because some people go one way in life, some go the other.

    Time to make new friends that will stick by you in good times or bad.

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  • stinkyncute
    12 years ago

    Double check through your memory and make sure you didn't do anything really off-base or weird.

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    • flutterhigh
      12 years ago

      Then delete your cookies.

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  • Personage
    12 years ago

    P.s all my other friends seem so fake and she is honestly the only real friend I have ever had. No person can be a greater friend then what she was and I am so sad.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    i'll be honest. I'm a guy and i don't think this is normal. which is why i voted no. but you're a girl so it could totally be normal for you. I wish i liked people enough to miss them but to be honest i don't talk to my best friend anymore and i don't give a flying fuck.

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