Is it normal to be this angry at my bro?
My brother borrows a lot of my things. I tell him every time to take care of them and return them when he's not using them anymore. There have been so many occasions when he doesn't return my things or when he does, they're as good as trash. - I get angry every time. But I usually get over it quickly. Anyway, recently, he borrowed my new headset. I've saved for it for so long and I value it very much. It cost me a lot of money. I didn't want to lend it to him but he reassured me that he would return it immediately, like in a day, because I use it everyday of my life and I feel like I would die if I don't listen to music in a day. Anyway, he didn't go home the night he said he would return it. He texted my mom saying that he's going to some friend's party. My mom didn't care, but that single text message got me so angry. I texted him and told him to return my headset because I was gonna use it. He texted me and said he would return it tomorrow. So I just slept through it, knowing that he would return it tomorrow morning. That morning though, when I asked him for my headset he said that his friend borrowed it. I got so angry! I wanted to punch him. He didn't care that I was so angry though and that I was so ready to explode. I told him like 10x in a minute to return it that moment because I was going to use it. He said he'll get it, but he didn't! 3 days have passed before he actually went to his friend to get it. I haven't spoken to him because I'm just so angry. He returned it to me now, the right ear of the headset isn't working anymore. I'm so freaking angry. I grit my teeth whenever I see him. I feel like hurting him really bad. Is it normal to be this angry? He's been trying to speak to me, but I'm so angry that I just tell him to "fuck off".