Is it normal to be this afraid of your sibling

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I'm a really sensitive person and tend to not do much in my life. My family is one that cares much about everything that I do and am not doing because they want to know im independent. Now one of my sisters ive been tending to be afraid because the way she yells or even talks sometimes overwhelms me, and its always her that tells me to make something of myself as a kid growing up. In the end it always seems like im hated. I always leave when shes around or i avoid eye contact. I know shes trying to help as a guardian but still. Is this normal to be so afraid of family like this?

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    She sounds like some of my family.

    I'm basically a quiet person, but over the years their yelling has caused me to be scared of them....

    You say she's your guardian? Maybe, she yells at you because she's stressed out, but still wants the best for you? I suggest that you try talking to her. It's normal to be scared, but at least she's not as bad as my family. Just tell her how you feel and see how it goes.

    Good Luck!

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  • kitchen.witch
    12 years ago

    yeah, me and my sister used to have a similar relationship. i was terrified of her and she made me feel stupid and pointless. she made me hate myself and hate her. i couldn't defend myself... our relationship grew better though once she matured more. id say talk to your sister about this, but if she is anything like mine, she will only get defensive- but talking is always worth a try. i know your pain, and i hope it gets better for you too.

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