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I was on my friends computer when some bondage site came up. He said it was weird and cruel. I'm the only one of my friends who likes that. Is it normal?
You are normal lots of people like a little pain or even a lot of pain while having sex. I happen to like having matches lit under my cock about 6 inches below it it does not hurt how ever it just feels warm and tickles a lot it makes me get very hard its the sulfur from the matches and the thought of the control of the other person using them on me that makes me cum. I enjoy the smell strong smell of the sulfur and the sound of the matches as they are being struck on the box it makes me so horny especially if she does it hard and fast holding them closer and closer to my cock teasing it with the flame each time. then if she touches my balls with a warm match tip I will cum hard and fast all over.so yes you are not alone my friend enjoy
I'm a girl and I like it too. The rougher the better! The pain just intensifies the other pleasurable feelings. I love how passionate and instinctual rough sex feels, it's just so raw. Nothing gets me off better then the adrenaline from the testing of my pain limits, and the intense animalistic wild fucking along with it.
My boyfriend and I love watching, but we'd never try. We choke each other and he'll spit on me, and git me as hard as he can sometimes. His favorite site you may enjoy is called public disgrace.
There's nothing wrong with a bondage/pain fetish. It's quite normal. Many people don't really announce it out loud, so there could be a chance that one of your friends is actually curious. We all like different things :)
It is normal. I have that same fetish. Many people like different things!
theres nothing wrong with it hun - want me to get the whip out - call me misstress lol
i have a gentle dominance about me that is rewarding for me and my partners. but it is important to make the distintion between s&m & b&d. this is important because you not only crave different things from the experience but if can lead to either a frredom or a shame based experience. b&d has a flirting with pain asspect but s&m has a humiliation aspect, very different choose what's right for you and hold on! very freeing. freedom from bondage!
The relationship I have with my wife, is not all Femdom, but can also be Vanilla for some of the time, however, She is the boss, and It is She alone who decides when it is to be vanilla, and when it is to be Femdom, I have no say in the matter. Once when it was vanilla, She asked me if there was anything in
particular that I would like Her to do to me during the Femdom period.
Yes I said, I would very much like you to bind me, make me completely helpless, immobile, unable to move a muscle, putting me entirely at your disposal, so that you can use me in whatever way you wish. I also said I hoped that She would enjoy doing this.. She smiled and said oh yes I will, and what's more, I know
exactly what to use, leave it to me.
She made a number of purchases, and a few days later said, "Come with me", led me upstairs, and told me to lie on the bed face upwards,with my head towards Her dressing table, now She continued "I am going to put you to sleep ( As you know She is a Hospital nurse), and when you wake up your dreams will have been fulfilled".. She injected the anaesthetic and I was soon unconscious..
When I at last regained consciousness, I found my entire body apart from my head encased inside a strong elasticated lycra tube made up entirely of a number of Woman's firm support foundation garments.
There are no words to describe the ecstatic feelings I had as I woke up, and found myself totally immobilized, completely unable to move anything except my
head, but best of all I had been restrained using only intimate Female related material, and this was indeed joy unspeakable.
Looking down at me with a smile She said, "well how's that then", wonderful I replied. Without another word She turned round, to face Her dressing table
mirror, sat Herself down on my face, and carmley proceeded to attend to Her appearance.
I have a great love for bondage.
A couple of my friends/partners have lightly used bondage, but nothing like what I want.
Im sure you're not the only one you know wih this fetish. Its very common to be turned on by pain/bondage. I think outher people are afraid to admit it and are asking themsleves the same question. I, for example love having my wrists tied together with string so I get burns around my wrist... (and im a virgin :))
Dont worry about everyone else - as long as you like it :)
my boyfriend is into this stuff, and he's the only one in his group of friends that he knows for sure of being into it. i personally am apalled by it, but i am slowly trying new things with him to fulfil his fantasies ya know... coz im nice i guess lol.
its totally cool like different ppl are into different things, youll probably have no problem finding someone some day thats into that sht too or like me, someone that will succumb to it to make you happy haha
i think im apalled by it because i'm old school in the sense of the man is supposed to be the dominant one in a relationship, and i should be the one being tied up and pushed around, not some 6'5 220 lb grown ass man. eck.
I like being spanked, slapped, spat on, scratched, bitten, tied up, choked etc. I like to do this to others too. The rougher the better, though as long as you mix it up with a bit of sweet intimacy I don't think it's too strange.
You are normal, although most peopole on this page will probably be searching bondage anyway, although you do have a fairly common fetish its likely if you ask people they wont admit it. Theyll feel insecure.