Is it normal to be tempted to date one of your tas?

I'm a sophomore and my TA is a post-doc in my lab. He doesn't score my homework or grade my lab reports. He does most of the instrument calibration. Since late September he's been really chatty with me. At first I thought it was because, hey, I'm the only girl in the lab, and we're both super-Battlestar geeks. But last week he dropped a question I couldn't miss. And when I was locking up my parts in the storage room after everyone else had left, he stuck around to help. At one point he reaches over and above me to put a piece of equipment on a high shelf and I SWEAR the dude brushed it against me. ... ... Our school has a strict policy prohibiting undergrads and grads or faculty from, you know. They've even threatened couples with expulsion.

But the dude and I can talk for HOURS about things we both like. I don't have any problem with the 14 year age difference. I think older dudes are really, really hot. Has anyone ever dated an authority figure from school? Did it blow up on you? Did you enjoy the experience? The year's almost over. I guess I could wait?

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  • mysistersshadow

    Bad idea.

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    • AB1234

      Why do you say that?

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      • mysistersshadow

        Mostly becos it is. Ppl lose there jobs and can't get another in that field for crossing those kinds of boundaries.

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        • AB1234

          That's a reasonable argument. I certainly don't want anyone losing his job because of me, especially after investing 12+ years of post-secondary schooling in his field. I haven't done anything & am pretty sure I won't. Thanks for having a backbone and being honest.

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          • mysistersshadow

            Well... I'm happy you considered it helpful. :)

            I had opportunities in college to date professors and while it was tempting I never did it mostly for the reason I gave. Tho in my case there were promises of favors in exchange it seems this has been a repeating theme in my life.

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  • Ratman

    When I was in high school I had sex with my French teacher. A 63 year old woman who was in her final year of teaching before she retired. After effects: I am now addicted to watching granny porn on the net. So be very careful. You may suffer a very strange affliction later on in life if things go to far with this guy.

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    • AB1234

      Wow. Man, are you serious? You mind me asking how it got started? Did anyone get in trouble? Do you regret it?

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