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Its my first one. Took me around an year to accept her proposal. I'm deeply in love with her and she with me. We are extremely compatible and support each other a lot. We've seen good times and bad.
I'm around 18 and she's an year older. IIN?
There are some questions that you need to ask yourself and your woman first...
Do you want children? You may not be thinking about it now, but if you two are going to get married, you had both better have your mind made up before you realize, 10 years from now, that she does not want kids but you really want to have a family.
How are you with your finances? The leading cause of marriage failure is finances. Why? Because there is nothing worse than being a saver (someone who is conscious with their money) that is married to a spender (someone that has no problem with buying new, shiny expensive things and is not phased by the prospect of debt).
Do you guys have your careers in mind or started? You might decide at some point down the road that you want to join the military or be an RN and if she doesn't feel that she can handle the stress of being married to someone with either job, she may not stay with you.
Make sure that you guys truly want the same things out of life. Shared goals will keep you together longer than an interest in video games will.
RUN for the HILLS
Marriage at such a young age is a mistake
Burn all her underwears Burn that FUCKER LET IT BURN
I think it's fine to talk about it, but you shouldn't jumo into it. You can still be together and not be married right? So why not wait a while until you're financially stable. I also strongly beleive you shouldn't marry someone until you've tried moving in with them. You really get to know someones habits by living with them. I don't know your situation, but to answer your question. It's totally normal :)
All I can suggest is that you take your time and if she really is right for you, then go for it.
Some people get lucky the first time round and others date many people before finding someone they want to settle down with. There is no "normal" on this as people go through different amounts of relationships before finding "the right one".
Everyone feels the first person their with is gonna be who they marry and most couples talk about it so I think its normal but if she isn't for the idea you might want to wait on talking about it as to not scare her away. And rarely do people stay with the first person their with but it does happen and maby yall will be one of the few. Good luck I hope things work out :)