Is it normal to be super depressed?

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I am now stuck in a situation where I have nobody to go, but have promised someone I wouldn't rely on her, unless ABSOLUTELY necessary. I have convinced her I'm fine, but I cannot fool myself, as hard as I may try. I am pondering if it is this hard(it seems impossible, btw) to let go of lost love. More over, I am wondering if it is normal to be stuck in such a depressing situation. Everytime I try to plan to hang-out with her she never is ready or its too late/dark, e.t.c... The point is, it hurts to be "just the friend" but that's what I promised I'd be because that's the most she wants me to be. I love her and life without her doesn't hurt but it's so boring and lonely(not sad-lonely, annoying-lonely). Is it normal to get in overly-depressing situations like this for teens?

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  • jako
    12 years ago

    It's normal ur getting the hard part out of the way. Trust me college will come and you'll forget her name, happens to mist if us... Time heal everything! You'll see

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    • isabel
      11 years ago

      college is not the answer always how u get over this means alot for ur future affairs trust me

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  • isabel
    11 years ago

    well if she wants to be left alone do it. dont let ur hormones get the best of u. maybe u were being too much or for what ever reason, i know it hurts. the faster u get over it the better because u may stay in that state for long.i know coz i have stayed in my state for long i cant date. be friends it could be a test or she found someone who is making her think weirdly.

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  • SnapeLoveHa
    14 years ago

    Or not.

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  • SnapeLoveHa
    14 years ago

    Almost. :/

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  • SnapeLoveHa
    14 years ago

    Same story.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Definitely. And while you may not see a way to reconcile a friendship that you would like to be much more, you will. And you will find that special someone elsewhere. Have a little faith in yourself, and give it time.

    If this depression lasts and affects your day to day tasks, do see a counsellor at school or your family Doc. You don't have to suffer, even for a gal who stole your heart.

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