Is it normal to be such a bitch?

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Okay, I'm a bitch.
I just discovered that I am (you guessed it, a bitch) and I have NO idea what to do now.
So I'm 19, never had a relationship, never even kissed anyone, and I'm not really worried cause it's by choice, and I could date some pretty nice guys if I wanted to.
Anyway, I talk to a lot of guys, and my friends say I flirt. A lot.I personally didn't agree, because I just talk about music and philosophy and books and just regular stuff,you know? But guys keep getting the wrong idea and asking me out and then I just shut down and cannot have a normal conversation with them anymore cause I have awful people skills to boot.
I never really thought of it as my fault, but who am I kidding, I'm the common denominator here and I'm sending off 'I like you' signals.
I analyzed all the instances where this happened, and couldn't find anything I was doing that was wrong. I talked to these guys just as I talk to girls.
So then I started being even more upfront about not being a relationship person and wanting to focus on school and stuff.
Didn't work.
So now what? Do I just stop talking to men in general, because I'm sick of people calling me a cold hearted bitch, even though now I'm fearing it's pretty fucking true.

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  • cutiebaby
    12 years ago

    I'm more of a cunt than a bitch.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    It's maybe how you reject them....

    If they ask you out and you look horrified and say, "Fuck off! Never!" Then you're offending them coz they thought you two had something in common. However, if you just laugh and say, "Oh thank you for the compliment but I'm so happy as I am." then they won't take offence and will still like you as a mate.

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    • dejaentendu!
      12 years ago

      Thanks. :)

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  • KareemOliverDiaz
    12 years ago

    are you black?

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    • dejaentendu!
      12 years ago

      I don't see how that matters?
      And no, I'm not.

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  • PenguinExpert
    9 years ago

    PULL YOSELF TOGETHER GET A BF

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    Be colder when you talk to guys. They are obviously not the same as girls so you need to treat them differently

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    • dejaentendu!
      12 years ago

      I don't know how much colder I can get, but I'll try!

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    You don't sound that bad.

    They're some men that "LOVE" Bitchy women... but when it comes to it, maybe it's how you say it? There's nothing wrong with being blunt, but sometimes the edges need to be softened.

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    • dejaentendu!
      12 years ago

      Yeah. One of my friends said that they think I'm playing hard to get. Which makes sense, but sticks me in a corner!

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  • GothamCityDiva
    12 years ago

    Maybe it's not what you say to these guys but how you say it. Google tact. Do that and you should be alright.

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