Is it normal to be stuck on a relationshp that never started?

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Im a 29 yr old male..when I was 14 an older frnd of my cousn gave me a love letter to deliver to one gal from my school. Since my job was simple it ddnt bother me much. It turnd out that I had more in store by fate i gues than i cld imagine. Ths gal thought i was tryna hit on her, I explaind my mission...to whch sh responded so badly tht i felt an obligation to calm her down..ths calmng led to much unexpectd series of events..In brief we became cloz then I fell in love with ths gal...I never actualy made my plans to make her my galfrnd, clear to her, but I cld tel sh felt somethn for me too. I gues i was too nervous to tel her...th moment i summedup courage to do so sh moved out of our neigbhood...Iv bn in countles relationshps with a lot ladies..very beautful ladies i must say...wel that gal wasnt tht much good lookn...Problem is I cant forget about her...sh was supoz to b my first galfrnd and I feel tht all my relationshps are fake coz i started out wrongly...infact I tell all ladies i meet that i dont have a first galfrnd..bcos I feel tht place is not yet filld..and only her cld have filld it...Is ths normal???

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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    I personally think this is weird and it takes a lot for someone like me to say that.

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  • Energy
    9 years ago

    Chief keef? Is that you? Because I can't understand a word you are saying!

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    • dudemustafa
      9 years ago

      Well thats as far as my english can go!!

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      • Energy
        9 years ago

        My apologies.

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  • seakelp
    9 years ago

    What happened to all your vowels?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Well, that was a total waste of time! I have absolutely no idea of what language this post is in, but I sure can't understand much of it. Are words like cld, cloz, sh, tryna and tel Greek or Russian, or are you the most unintelligent and lazy asshole on earth?

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    • dudemustafa
      9 years ago

      hahahahaha....unlike you my friend I seek knowledge rather than project my insecurities on people who might have no clue to the origins of yo exergerated so called "inteligent response"....and you write about " a waste of time" yo comment is very helpful in your own view right???

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    • Bobblahblah
      9 years ago

      Ahoy there!
      I know you're frustrated, but please consider people's feelings. There could be a good reason for the many flaws exhibited above.

      I hope the OP isn't crying because of your harsh words. :/

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        What about our feelings? Someone who posts unintelligible crap like this is showing no respect for the other members of IIN. If someone actually wants help, one would think that they would make every effort to make themselves understood, rather than posting a bunch of gibberish, wouldn't you? This is only lazy, stupidity, not a sincere call for help.

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        • TareBear20
          9 years ago

          Or it could just be highly possible that some people do not care about grammar on an online forum. The best you can do is bash someone on grammar? Sounds like a troll to me, dude.

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      • dudemustafa
        9 years ago

        hahahaha....here I am laughing at that "inteligent" response by someon who calls themselvs "gypsesailor" instd of sobbing

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  • Bobblahblah
    9 years ago

    Find her.

    Or just wait. You'll get over it in time. Maybe a looot of time, but, it'll happen.

    Or you'll die sad... but that's highly unlikely...

    unless you die suddenly due to unforeseen circumstances, which could happen to anyone.

    :)

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    • dudemustafa
      9 years ago

      "Find her" wl try that but what are my prospects of rekindling our relationshp Dude?

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      • Bobblahblah
        9 years ago

        Better than zero.

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