Is it normal to be straight for love, but bi for sex...?

The title is just the nutshell, but I'll elaborate:- Is it normal to be interested in full-on relationships with only women, but where casual sex is concerned I wouldn't say no to fucking a guy? Thing is, I can't ever see myself having a relationship with a guy. I'm just wondering how many of you are in the same boat. My past record has been all women so far, but I've been curious for friggin' years lol. Cheers!

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  • Nikki:)

    I am a female who feels the same way, but in the opposite. I could only have a relationship with a man, but kinda want to sleep with a woman just out of curiousity. I have kissed a couple girls, but it didn't really do it for me. I am just curious whether women are better lovers? They have the same stuff so they probably know exactly how to work it ;)

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  • glasscandy

    Well, I feel exactly the same way, and I have since I was fifteen... although I lean more towards guys in sex, but girls in love...

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  • more2c711

    Hot man on man sex!

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  • cambscurious

    I am married and love women but sometimes I just wanna suck a cock, sometimes the feeling goes away but it always comes back, maybe I should just do it

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  • mister_thinker

    It's absolutely normal. Sexuality is way more complex, and more fluid than the labels straight/bi/gay suggest.

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  • Thanks for the positive feedback! Glad I'm not alone. :) Now, how to go about finally trying it with a guy...?? Hmmm... lol :p

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  • Bikertrash69

    I'm exactly the same way, but I've had the pleasure.

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  • JazzyJim

    Super waaay normal. I think most of the guys out there having sex with other guys are not into that emotional component. I'm one of those. I don't want to kiss. I don't want to cuddle. And I sure as hell don't want romance. I just want to suck your dick. I want to suck your dick until you cum in my mouth. And then I want to do it again.

    No picking out china patterns...

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  • Schythl

    Normal. Hell, I'm bi for love and straight for sex!

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  • Yesssss except I'm a girl.. I cud never deal with a relationship with a girl, I have enough to deal with myself lol but sexually I cud definitely go lesbo :)-

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  • mmark112

    Wow.. Thanx
    I thought i was a weirdo and a very confused guy.
    It's comforting to now that this might be normal after all

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  • mils-dogg

    I love doing girls. I'm in love with a boy. :)

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  • WetPantiesBoy

    I know exactly what you mean... I wanna do it with a guy but i aint got any bi or gay friends

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  • Crazybeast

    I love woman just like you but I have had a fantasy about having sex with a woman as a guy puts his cock in my ass until we all blow our loads.

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  • sushicheff

    i mthe same way, i love having sex with guys from time to time. but i would never ever date a guy. or be romantic with one at all.

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  • courios77

    Married 13 yrs two great kids and my wife and I have the same questions so u r not alone in this. We r also a straight couple. But bi for sex rock on and go with the flow.

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  • Thanks yet again everyone, all the positive feedback is brilliant. :)
    I'm getting real comfortable with the fact now, but obviously want to try it first before I'm open about it.
    What do you reckon is the best way to try with a guy? Chat up a gay friend? Go to a gay bar? Meet with someone from chatting online?

    And JazzyJim that's exactly how I am, until I try anyway but I know that I love sucking dick because I used to be able to suck my own! And I didn't see it as just contortionist masturbation hahahahaha, I got off on the fact that I was sucking dick. So I'm dying to try it. I don't have a dildo but I love rubbering up random stuff for a makeshift dildo, anchoring it somewhere and letting it fuck my ass. Feels so good!!

    I think I'm gonna have to go work off the hard-on I'm giving myself just thinking about it hahahaha.

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  • soccerstud

    Im on that boat bro, luckily I've had the best of both worlds. Best thing out there bro.

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  • Carl

    If you're having mixed feelings about what you want, then give everything a try. If you like women, but find you like having sex with other guys also, so be it. Just make it a part of your life, accept it and enjoy it. You'll be more sexually aware and experienced than most others you know.

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  • CrazyNiteOwl

    i'm the same but the other way around cause i'm a girl, but yes very normal

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  • Again guys, thanks for all the great feedback!
    With each comment, I'm finding myself more and more comfortable with the fact. :) xx

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  • Austin1841

    I feel that way all the time. In fact if any of you guys live in California I would love to have some casual "fun" :)

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  • randomjelly

    I'm a happy committed lesbian but when I was still "figuring it all out" and dating men I highly enjoyed the sex! Sounds normal to me! ;-)

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  • deepthought33

    I'm the same way. Aside from casual sex, I think I would like to try a relationship with a woman, but I don't know how far I'd expect it to go. When I imagine being in another super serious relationship it is a man I see in my head.

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  • ews

    I am married and have not had sex with my wife for the last 25 years. I still love her.
    I love sucking cock and swallowing cum. I could not imagine being in love with another man.

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    • ncbymail

      I feel the same - love her but don't have sex. My sex is with men, mostly sucking and swallowing cum, but I have fucked and been fucked by other men occasionally (5 times)

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      • ews

        I have never been able to relax enough to take a cock up my arse.

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  • jeanclaude

    Usually a straight boy that fucks around with dudes is either was always attracted to themselves or are on gay drugs like meth or coke.coke usually makes you extremely bi or pervertinly sudden drive to do the most nastiest things to men especially muscular ones. At this point most girls will let their men confess their feelings to them.

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  • bsl05

    Yeah bi for sex I'm a very loved up pussy man who experienced a male encounter no anal just oral wow amazing feeling another mans hot hard cock jerk in your mouth blow me mind I tell you still doing it nine years later sucked a lot of cock now and it still amazes me the feeling

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  • STILL haven't tried with a guy yet, I don't fancy my first time after picking up a random stranger. Nor do I fancy trying my luck with one of my gay/bi friends! Dunno what to do... x

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  • faquarl

    ........you're not just bi for sex. You're bi for being bi. I'm bi.

    Don't make it something like an object. Some people have hard times figuring out what they want in their lives. You're fortunate that you have the confidence to be so open about it for strangers to comment on.

    I was well liked in high school and never really had problems like that, but I never made it blatant.

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    • I see your point, but it's not that black and white. A bisexual would typically happily form an emotional bond with either sex, I wouldn't. I'm totally hetero in an emotional sense, but I'm bi in a sexual sense.

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  • Btw, I think I'm gonna make it a new year's resolution to finally try with a guy!

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  • lvcumluver

    same boat as you but I have had sex with many men and transexuals. The best sex I have ever had involved a cock! I love having gay sex its wonderful and pretty normal.

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  • chicken471bologna

    Yes, it's normal.

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  • I'm in tx and it sooooo hard to find a guy to even make out with. Any help would make me very happy. ;-P

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    • Shame I'm across the pond, I'd have gladly helped out! ;P x

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  • corndogs

    I just made a post about this same thing! I am starting to believe it is very normal. And yes I feel the same way. I'm glad to know I'm not the only one that feels this way.

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  • queenbitxh

    its completely normal. i only like men, but ill hook up with women.

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  • hellodxx

    IN A WAY

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  • Etheredge92

    yes. sex plays a different role in everyone's life. some find it to be a spiritual experience, others find it "fun".

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