Is it normal to be straight but very unfeminine?

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I'm attractive and take care of my appearance, but that's where my femininity ends. I take a martial arts class, I like video games, I don't like gossiping or talking about boys and clothes, I dislike chick flicks, I'm more logical than emotional, I make crude jokes, and people have commented that I don't talk like most women. Is this normal? I don't think I need to change myself, but I do wonder what most guys think about this.

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Based on 51 votes (46 yes)
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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    totally normal. you'd probably have no problem getting a guy, if you can talk about things that they'd be interested in.

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  • 343Boy
    13 years ago

    Sexual orientation has nothing to do with gender attributes, and it's fine if you don't fit into the limitations of gender stereotypes.

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  • TB1920
    13 years ago

    You sound like the most awesome girl EVER don't change. Guys will totally dig you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I dislike girly girls so I think that's better than normal.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    i am the same. i love fast cars and playing computer games. i swear a lot more than guys and think about sex every 3 seconds. you dont need to change at all. if you are 100% happy with who you are then dont worry about what other people have to say. i went out with a guy who tried to change me and make me more "feminine" but only because i intimidated him and made him feel less of a man. i didnt respect this guy at all because of that and ended up telling him where to go. i have now found a guy who loves me for me and actually brags to people about how honest and forward i am and how i tell everything how it is and he loves that we have so much in common. so if a guy says you are to "manly", be straight up and tell him to fuck off :)

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  • yomorris
    13 years ago

    Dnt change :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I'm the same and so is a good friend of mine.

    Most guys will say that they like girls like us, and they do in a way, but they usually like us as friends - not girlfriends. When it comes down to the nitty-gritty, most young guys feel intimidated by us... But the guys that DO find your type attractive, those are the good ones. They are rare, but totally worth the wait.

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  • Jcandy
    13 years ago

    Being feminine or masculine has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Some girly girls like other girls! You're just more masculine (if you even want to label yourself at all). Fuck what other people say! Be yourself. :)

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  • AnonB
    13 years ago

    My girlfriend's like this.

    Life can go many and any ways, I always tell myself. There is never a movie or story that can retrace or totally guide one person's life.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    as long as you don't forget who the man is during sex, it fine.

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