Is it normal to be someones pet ?

I use to have a friend he was my best friend people said I followed him like " a little lost puppy dog " I would do anything he asked as I only wanted to please him . he called me his " Pet " and I gladly wore this title and he was my Master . at the time most of my other friend treated me like dog krap and he was the only one decent to me . However he called most of my other friends " Fuckbuddys and went around calling them that " they took it as rude and insulting . He never called me that I was just his loyal pet his loving follower that would follow his every single whim . I always thought Fuckbuddys was a disrespectful term ? This was a long time ago I was in 8th grade . This was the first time I kind of liked someone I had not liked anyone before that and had found relationships trivial and illogical but he was the nicest person in my life on top of no one approving of him neither did my family of being friends with him . all I had gotten was negativity in my entire life but he would only ever tell me nice things . I would have done so much as Jump off a cliff to my death if that was his wish . After the 8th grade he moved and my world fell apart my life was a downward spiral till the end of high school after that . I was insane for a short while because of that but I dealt with it and I am very different now . I never thought of my self as anything more than his dog honestly in my mind I was just his little slave to do his whim . My friend had told me this was a type of worship ? I do not agree with that have anyone else had the same type of relationship ? its not the lets do it doggy style in the bedroom its more like a lifestyle choice not a bedroom sex thing.

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Comments ( 36 )
  • Justsomejerk

    Elephant stamp for you! Great spelling!

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    • Allistalla

      Thankyou .lol

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  • Mrman10

    Allistalla?...

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    • TerryVie

      sad, ain't it?

      Either way, allistalla, how about finding a new master, it seems you quite enjoyed your time as a sub?
      bdsm lifestyle is not just about sex, you know...

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      • Allistalla

        Also I had been looking for a new one since that day it never worked out .

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      • Allistalla

        I know thats why I stated it some poeple do this just as bedroom play . Some get in these situations .

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        • shade_ilmaendu

          That's definitely normal, but be careful. If you find another Master, make sure you two are openly communicating your needs to one another and that you are safe from being controlled if you don't want to be.

          I was in a Master/Pet relationship once and it went pretty terribly wrong. The guy was abusive, controlling, manipulative... but really sneaky about it. For a long time I trusted him and let him get away with some fucked up stuff... it's a long story, so I won't go into detail...

          Just make sure you can really trust your dom.

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          • TerryVie

            thumbed up for truthfulness!

            I am TerryVie and i endorse this message!

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      • dappled

        And I second this. I'd even say the majority of it isn't about sex. I wondering whether, for you personally, it's something you want to mix with love, though. I mean, would you want this lifestyle to also be a relationship? Either way, I think you can find what you want.

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        • TerryVie

          hm, are you talking to me or allitallia here?

          :)

          As yeah, i would not want this to be a relationship thing mixed with love. I'm too much of a wild-child /free spirit to be confined permanently, even though i greatly enjoy it at times.
          As it takes a lot of trust though, it's one of the things i seem to not experience sufficiently for my tastes. My partner sometimes includes it, but i know she primarily does it for me, so it's great, but not the same.

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          • dappled

            Ahh, mainly to the Allistalla. I'm not sure there's much I'd presume to tell you about sex. :P

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            • TerryVie

              haha, sorry, i guess i should control myself a bit better, hu? People may come to think i am undecent if that kind of reputation builds...

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    • Allistalla

      Why do you poeple keep doing this on my post ? Allistalla ? are you asking me a question ?

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      • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

        I thought u had INN gold

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        • Allistalla

          I do I changed my colar for 4th of july .

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          • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

            Colar? Lol

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    • Allistalla

      Yes I wrote this .

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  • WordWizard

    This is a practice many follow in one form or another.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I wish Gerard Way was my pet.

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  • the dog that bites gets put outside grrr

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  • VioletTrees

    Was he the same age as you?

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    • Allistalla

      Yeah he was the same age as me we had the same classes and I saw he all the time . he went to the same school too .

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  • Boo!

    I had a friend who I felt like that with. She treated me just like that (nice, caring and a loving person). One day we drifted apart. It was hate/love relationship. She didn't call me her pet or anything. she was a close friend and sometimes I felt like a lost puppy following her because I love and trust her. She was the kitty and I was the puppy and now I've been replaced, there is a new puppy in town.

    I can see where your coming from. I believe its pretty normal to feel that way for someone. You had a lot of affection for him.

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