Is it normal to be so sexually frustrated its

First off I love my lady and im very attracted to her.The truth is im so sexually frustared with her I dont know what to do.I've never believed in cheating but now I think of reason why I should,not saying I will but it pops in my mind to much.Only because of frustrations.This is the thing i've tried talkin to her about it,Ive told her im horny,sexually frustrated and really need sex.

Its been like this for alittle over a year and a half.She have no kids, weight about 150, no health problems works average 40hr a week( pharmacist )I have no health problems weight the same as always..My point is everthing the same for us.
My lady is hot nice body,nice face she is the whole package. We've been together for 8yrs now living together.

What am I suppose to do?The sex life has got horrible year after year.Ive tried waiing on better times but things are so miserable for me.Talking aint helping no more.It used to for a few days.She don't like me watching porn or jackin off.If I jump on her we will have sex but that gets boring.She used to tells me if I want it take it from her ......at one time that was hot but now shes hardly into it.

If it was you what would u do?Ive tried takin but it always fall on dead ear like she dont even care no more.Out of anger I think I should cheat only to show her I mean what i've beesaying.Ive told sex shouldn't be the biggest thing in a relationship but everyone need sex sometimes,especially meeing 100% faithful.I just feel like if u put the biggest pot in the sink with the water dripping with this slowest drip sooner or later the pot fill like a persons sex drive.My pot is over flowing.What should I do?

Cheat 1
Never Cheat 1
Find another sexual way to be relieved like porn 4
Keep tring to work it out. 3
Break up because sex life is bad 2
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Comments ( 8 )
  • dude_Jones

    Move in to a separate bedroom. You'll feel better in a few weeks. If you don't have any kids, then put distance between the two of you for a low-stress breakup.

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  • IrishPotato

    Try doing something completely out of order and totally unexpected (:

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  • thinkwithlogics

    You hit it on the nose...im tring to deal with it but like I told her I dont need no roommate.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    She won't give you sex, but expects you not to watch porn or masturbate? Sounds like a selfish controlling woman that I wouldn't want to be with in the first place!

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    • Abysmal.Thoughts

      Hell Fuckin yeah

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    • thinkwithlogics

      Yeah she didn't use to be like that it just seem like she let herself go....to much.(frustrating)

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        That really does suck! Even if the rest of the relationship is going great, I don't know how long I could stick around one with absolutely no passion. Once that passion, and that fire is gone, you are left living with someone who is more like a friend, just wishing for someone to love you like you love them, I hate that feeling!

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  • GuessWho

    *Fap *Fap *Fap

    If she doesn't want you to, she must take care of your needs.

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