Is it normal to be so jealous.

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Here's my situation. My best friend is a girl (im a guy). We met at my sister's wedding and ever since then we have grown really close. Ive never been in a relationship before as i am a virgin (she knows) but she has been through a few, with all of them turning out badly. I would like to be with her but she keep telling me she loves the single life. Now what confuses me is she's starting to spend a lot of time with an older guy and she openly tells me that they have made out. I get extremely jealous when i hear this and try to change the topic of conversation. She re-assures me that they are just "friends". Is it normal to be this jealous of him or am i just being protective? What should i do?

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  • Jen118584
    13 years ago

    Ehhh, she just wants you to be jealous. It's all about attention. Don't even buy into it.

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  • LiamHale
    13 years ago

    You've got no right to be jealous unless you're in an actual relationship with her. What should you do? You should make her yours, dude.

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old
    13 years ago

    He's getting something that you want, but you've been told you can't have. Of course, it's natural to feel jealousy.

    I feel bad for you because it seems like she's stringing you along a little bit. She's told you "no", but tells you intimate details of some other guy she's interested in, but then she says they are "just friends" to keep your hopes up. Nice!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Step up your game and tell her straight up how you feel!

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Yea it's normal t be jealous like this. U need to talk to her. Find out her feelings and see if there is a possibility of getting together. But it doesn't really sound like she wants to be with u sorry. So just be there for her and try to find anther girl to turn ur affection to.

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