Is it normal to be so in love that you eat sleep and breath them?

Is it normal to be so in love with your husband?

I can't stand my husband being away from me. Him and my kids are my life. I get a horrible feeling inside when we are not together and feel apart of me is missing.

I love him soooooooooo much it hurts. If that makes sense. We have been together 2 1/2 years and his my world.

Does anyone else feel like this about their partner and is it normal.

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87% Normal
Based on 54 votes (47 yes)
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  • a215

    if you give your man space, he will love you more.

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  • Kelaihc

    It isn't healthy. It's obsession... But then, when you're in love, it's the most beautiful obsession, isn't it? ^^
    I know how it feels to suddenly be pulled out of depression by someone, and I fell in love with my own knight in shining armor ^^... But I didn't have the happy ending you have right now. I'm not with him, even though I would have given everything to be. I was so clingy he ended up leaving me, even though he was all I had. I was obviously not everything to him. Giving him space only made him drift further away. So I don't know what the best thing to do is.
    You're in love, so there is no Normal or Not to this question. But if I have anything to say, it's that you should cherish every moment you have with him.
    Be proud that you were privileged with an ending like this. If it helps at all, talk to your man about it. Be straightforward. If you feel guilty for being so obsessive, tell him. If you'd like him to tell you if he needs space or not, talk to him. There isn't much else you can do.
    Try not to deal with it like an obsession. It's raw love. The best kind. The purest, most unhindered kind. You're giving every bit of yourself to one single person. Don't leave any room for the kind of love heartbroken people seek. Compromised love is well and good for people to try and move forward, but you've got it good. You're lucky to have him. Give it all you've got. You've got a feeling that everyone gets, but so few get to keep. Hold onto it. <3

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  • IDontAskMuch

    Yes he is lucky. He chose me yeah so less of your sarcastic shallow comments. Age is just a number at the end of the day so who are you to judge.

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  • SweetSherry

    You're 14 yrs older and he's lucky! ROFL

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  • IDontAskMuch

    Sorry for the slight duplicate. The first one I thought didn't go through. It said timeout error.

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  • IDontAskMuch

    Thank you for your kind words. He actually is lucky to still have me after I caught him 7 months ago having set up a fictitious fb account and sending his ex a couple of messages stating how fit she was and another woman he claims not to know. He is 14 years younger than me and at the time of him deceiving me like this our son was only 8 weeks old. This has had an enormous impact on me and I struggle with his deceit everyday. I just hope that I can get through this in my heart and mind and for him to never deceive or hurt me like this again. It's effected me so much I'm back on medication. I just so wish I could turn back time as in my eyes everything was so perfect and I was the happiest I have ever been. I hope he realises a good thing when he has it and that the grass ain't always greener on the other side. Bring back the good times.

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  • IDontAskMuch

    Thank you for your kind words. My husband is actually lucky to have me. His 14 years younger than me and some 7 months ago he decided to behind my back to set up a fictitious fb account and send his ex a couple of messages yelling her she was well fit and another woman he claims he doesn't know. Plus he added other women without messaging them. He thought he had deleated all the history but he accidentally left some behind and when I was looking for a site we had previously visited I stumbled across it. Shit hit the fan and I'm still finding it hard to comes to terms with. There are very big trust issues now and I'm back on medication as it effected me that bad and our son was only 8 weeks old at the time. Why do men feel the need to get there kicks from other women especially when I thought our relationship was going really well. I struggle with this every day and it don't help he looked at her pics of her in only a bra and thong posing over her sofa like a porn star. There's so much more to this but it kills me inside just thinking about it. I hope I can get over this and that he will never betray me again. I hope he realises how good he has things and that the grass isn't always greener on the other side.

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  • IDontAskMuch

    I am obsessed with him. I know I am. He helped pull me through a bout of severe depression and he was always there for me. He was my rock. My knight in shining armour but it's left me head over heels in love with him and never want to be apart from him which I know ain't possible because he works. Him and my kids are my whole world and I can't operate without them. I don't have any hobbies or anything. I lost interest in a lot of things when I lost my identity as a person when being depressed. It sucks real bad and wish he was as addicted to me but obviously his not as he has other interests besides me because his normal and I'm not.

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  • amoresuicidio

    Yes it's normal, but not healthy. It's called being obsessive.

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  • Imjustthatgirl

    Yes its normal. And it hurts like a darn bitch when you breakup.

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  • 8Serene8

    Yes I feel this way about my boyfriend too. He is the most wonderful man I've ever met <3

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