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I have just recently started having sex with my boyfriend and he turns me on so much and the foreplay is amazing but i cant seem to reach orgasm with him? Is it normal or must i try something els?
(This is edited- but repeat advice from another question I answered)
Depends on how old you are, and whether or not you have ever had one. If you're fairly young, it is normal, because you two don't really know what you're doing yet. Most ppl have to be taught.
You have a little 'button' type thing called a clitoris- the female counterpart to the penis. Orally, manually, or with regular intercourse- tell him to go to town on that- a finger, his hand, his mouth / tongue -- or for you to control it better- you should be on top, grinding properly. You should be able to do it.
The trick is not to stop no matter how intense it gets- I have a tendency to want to stop, embarrassed at what he will see- my expression, and the fact that I would like to scream... it is very hard to control your behavior when you are about to have an orgasm, and I HATE losing control.
Women need to seriously trust the one she is with to just 'let go'... Also, like men, it's easier to achieve if you haven't had one in awhile.