Is it normal to be so desperate...

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Is it normal to be so obsessed with trying to be super skinny? I'm 5'5 and 51kg. I hate every part of my body, i see really skinny girls and try to be just like them. last year i went extreme and lost a lot of weight very quickly! But then it all came back to me and everyone said it was much better that way but all i want to do is be that skinny again. It makes me sick to think about mine or others weight. My whole life seems to revolve around it. If any one wants to give me some tips on easy fast tips on losing weight i'd appreciate them! And yes i'm very aware how pathetic and shallow this sounds but it really is a big problem to me so no nasty comments please.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I think like that sometimes.. then I grab a slurpee and a bigmac. I'm not fat, but I'm not super skinny either. 110lbs, 5'1. I guess I'm one of those "curvy girls" or something lol My grandma taught me a trick from her day. she said to hold in your gut. Eventually your body will automatically do it by itself and you will look noticably skinnier

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  • squeeeshie
    11 years ago

    Yeah you're fat

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  • short&sassy
    11 years ago

    Being 5'5 and 51kg is a healthy weight. You should listen to the optimistic opinions of your friends because it's true. You're at a perfect weight for your height and your already skinny. You may think that you're fat because you don't fit into really small jeans or your thighs look wide, I know, but your hips don't make you fat, and your thighs look bigger to you than anyone else. That's a fact:) I've battled eating disorders in the past, and its not a good place to go. Learn to love your body because you've only got that one skin for life and if you don't have "body peace" its not gonna be a whole lot of fun. See a conseleur about self-hate, and a doctor/diet specilist to get you exactly where you need to be. If you still find yourself wanting to go to extremes to drop weight, talk to someone and get help. If you resort to anorexia or bulimia, you will either slowly die and your body will try to go into survival mode, or when you get out your body will gain all the weight back really quickly. Harsh but true. Your body is built to survive, even when your mind wants you to be skinnier. Hope this helped. Message me if you want to talk more.

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  • Carlosolrac
    11 years ago

    So you dont nasty comments... I had formulated one :T.

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  • blackstreetboy
    11 years ago

    Depends if you're a guy or a girl. Either way, if you want to gain or loose weight, do it healthily.

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  • saduJ18
    11 years ago

    I understand that telling you this will help exactly NONE, but it makes me feel sad that you feel that way about yourself. I wish women would just accept their natural beauty as it is. There's a reason that all women aren't built the same... it's cuz all men don't like the same type of women! I HATE skinny chicks, but some of my friends dig them. I swear I don't understand why though, women should have CURVES!

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